Is yaoi rape culture?

CAINPLSRAILMEWITHURMONSTERCOCK October 17, 2020 3:15 pm

After reading yours to claim, i noticed a lot of people were completely pushing aside the fact that yawhi raped jooin, and started telling others to wait for character development. It’s gross, but i saw many people doing it. Then i came across someone saying that ALL yaoi has rape in it, and that i have to get used to it simply because it’s yaoi. They then started calling yaoi rape culture and continuously saying how all yaoi or majority of yaoi has rape despite how many times i’ve replied with a link for yaois without rape. After that they kept talking about popular yaois, like potn and other popular shit that i can’t remember. They kept saying how they and the “yaoi community” were used to rape in yaoi and just think it’s wrong but still don’t cate just because they’re used to it. After replying to them with a long ass reply they completely made up shit and blocked me so i couldn’t reply lmaoooo. So i will ask again, is ALL yaoi rape culture? If you’d like to read the whole argument here it is: http://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/7868321/

Responses
    yumiko October 17, 2020 3:18 pm

    honestly i dont like reading rape which is why i tend to avoid it, but i’m only reading yours to claim for the other character to get a chance with the cute uke. sure many people like yawhi because of his good looks, and im one of them (guilty). but i dont think rape should be normalized in yaoi, even if its drawings

    CAINPLSRAILMEWITHURMONSTERCOCK October 17, 2020 3:22 pm
    honestly i dont like reading rape which is why i tend to avoid it, but i’m only reading yours to claim for the other character to get a chance with the cute uke. sure many people like yawhi because of his goo... yumiko

    exactly.

    Kash October 17, 2020 3:28 pm

    Yeah... Infact the majorities makes it so hard to even say what u want...... I used to see stories which has rape in it before but now I can't take it........ And don't bother to say anything like that in comments cuz you'll be the one who'll feel blamed or just speak your mind out and don't care what others say which I usually do....... I also read yours to claim so that I can see blondy while skipping sex scene....... And I'm currently in hold so I don't know abt the story of recent chapters.........infact, the most irritating thing is that uke r being pathetic abt unrequited love and all..... Whereas what they basically like is face...........

    Boomer move October 17, 2020 3:34 pm

    I don't think rape should be normalized or used anywhere, idc if it's BL, yaoi ,straight, ect. People shouldn't be doing that.

    SeoSakura October 17, 2020 3:44 pm

    Personally when i was younger and didn't understand the weight of rape, i didn't mind it. But the more you grow up, the more you realise how bad and scarring it is. I think in older yaoi mangas, the ones i read when i was a teen, most were dubcon, rape, non consent, sexual harassment and so forth, but lately i think rape in yaoi has decreased. Authors are probably starting to realise the weight of it too. If you search for yaoi with a lot of smut, rape is common. But nowadays i see a lot of wholesome ones, and even rlly smutty ones has consent. So maybe yaoi rape culture was a thing before, but i dont think it is anymore

    SeoSakura October 17, 2020 3:49 pm
    Personally when i was younger and didn't understand the weight of rape, i didn't mind it. But the more you grow up, the more you realise how bad and scarring it is. I think in older yaoi mangas, the ones i read... SeoSakura

    And seriously i hope more authors will stop romanticising rape. If they are going to put rape in a story, it should be one that focuses on the trauma of it, so ppl will stop acting like its okay