Just gross

Pepita October 14, 2020 6:31 pm

People, I know this is fiction, but please don't ever romanticise rape. Real people go through rape on a relationship even if they are or were in love, and it is not a pleasant experience for the victims. All these people commenting you're GLAD they ended up together, is it because they're gay or something? Wow, rape shit in yaoi got a toxic fandom behind it, and I say it being a extreme fujoshi having read a lot of shit.

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    PeaceFujoshi October 17, 2020 12:21 am
    i shouldnt have replied here- now my notifs are gon buST OtakuWaifu

    Oof-

    milly October 17, 2020 12:24 am

    no im not cishet i am asexual but just assuming anyone is cishet just because you dont agree with their standpoint is a problem. i shouldnt have to reveal my sexuality or personal information to you in order for you to consider my argument at all. the only real gendered term i used was "bruh" and i use that with everyone usually, but since you told me you were uncomfortable with that term as well i havent used that in the recent replies. i dont let the content i read affect my morals or my actions. i dont define who i am by the content i read, and i surely dont read content like this and use it as a way to condone rape. the content itself isnt telling anyone to do anything. its how people perceive the content and how much they let it effect them that makes it problematic. i do however think that this content was not meant for this website and since it is meant to be porn it shouldve stayed in mrm. if that doesnt make sense to you thats fine but i saw your reply as an addition to what someone else was saying in response to me so i responded. fujoshi usually has a negative connotation and was used to refer to people who objectify men, which you have no proof of me doing since, once again, i would never apply what i have read in any manga or anime onto a real living person and use it as a means to degrade them to being objects.

    Senbonzakura October 19, 2020 4:44 am
    To be exact, in real life Females are mostly raped and Abused, but since Females are now fetish in "Men", which I'm a female but also don't really fetish men, but loves the romance. But I do think that Rape is ... NASABibble1

    What is fetish men?

    noux2w November 28, 2020 2:31 pm
    "I know rape is bad but..." Just this "but" already invalids what you're saying... Rape MUST be seen as something disgusting NO MATTER where... Be it at fiction or reality... It doesn't matter if there's a warn... DudiiSC

    I know you made this a while ago but I have a question or more of an opinion I want to share. I feel like at LEAST 99% of people (excluding rapists) believe that rape is horrible. And I can tell that you are VERY against rape in general including fiction especially when it’s romanticized. This is a genuine question. What’s you’re opinion on rape play? I know that some people in real life have these fetishes and will pursue it in a safe environment with someone they trust with safe words and such. Another thing is what about violence in fiction? I know sometimes when someone beats people up/kills people in action sometimes they’re called “badass” or “cool” and if you were to beat people up or kill people in real life this is clearly frowned upon. Now violence is more clearly portrayed in media but in porn (in general) such things that would be frowned up if they were to actually happen to someone happen in porn. For instance I know that in bdsm sometimes there will be the master and the slave(s). If this were real then this would be frowned upon because slavery is a terrible thing. It’s all fake though, they’re not actually master in slave just playing as such. It’s because we know that they had consent and that it’s all fake. Wouldn’t this be the same in fiction? Now obviously the consent part is laking at least in this doujin, but we know that these are fictional characters not even based off real people meaning that they don’t actually have feelings or real emotions. I mean when a character kills someone else in anime (like I mentioned before) they could be seen as “badass” which isn’t necessarily romanticizing them, but it isn’t looking down on them for doing something illegal. I mean this is all just my opinion and I hate rape because of what it does to the victims and many times the rapist doesn’t get caught. While I’d rather read a story with consent I don’t personally mind stories like this. Now I know that some people that read these are young so their minds are impressionable, but I still believe that they would know to differentiate fiction from reality. That’s why whenever I come across a scene that isn’t full of consent I always remember that this IS CLEARLY FICTION. It helps that anime characters are VERY different from real people. Many things that anime characters have such as big eyes, colorful hair, unrealistic body proportions, etc. real people have details, things that would be impossible to integrate to anime characters because you’d never get whatever you were making finished in time. Really anytime you’re watching anime, reading manga, etc. I keep in mind that it’s not real and while things that happen in that media the people I’m reading about or the things that happen in that media are emphasized. I do think it’s important to make comments letting everyone know as a reminder that this is PURELY FICTIONAL, but when all of the comments are bashing on the work and the author I do think that they could’ve said it in a nicer tone. Now there’s no way that the author would ever see these comments, but maybe the translator or something (I’m not sure) could see this. And when you work very hard on something only for people to bash on it is quite rude. I apologize if this reply came off as rude that wasn’t my intention I was just stating what I think about this. I also realize that this was extremely long lol but I hope you enjoyed your fall break (if you had one I’m not sure if everyone has a fall break...) (⌒▽⌒)

    noux2w November 28, 2020 2:32 pm
    I know you made this a while ago but I have a question or more of an opinion I want to share. I feel like at LEAST 99% of people (excluding rapists) believe that rape is horrible. And I can tell that you are VE... noux2w

    Oh god I wrote way too much I’m sorry Σ(  ̄□ ̄||)

    noux2w November 28, 2020 2:39 pm
    I know you made this a while ago but I have a question or more of an opinion I want to share. I feel like at LEAST 99% of people (excluding rapists) believe that rape is horrible. And I can tell that you are VE... noux2w

    So uh I put this into a word counter and it counted 630 words... I am so sorry I didn’t even realize it was that long also sorry for any typos I’m on mobile.

    Senbonzakura November 28, 2020 5:39 pm
    So uh I put this into a word counter and it counted 630 words... I am so sorry I didn’t even realize it was that long also sorry for any typos I’m on mobile. noux2w

    U still replying dude? I thought everyone else died...

    milly November 28, 2020 8:19 pm
    So uh I put this into a word counter and it counted 630 words... I am so sorry I didn’t even realize it was that long also sorry for any typos I’m on mobile. noux2w

    nah i was literally trying to explain what you just summarized perfectly and the original comment was attacking a person that was trying to say the same shit. its annoying to me when people claim to "educate" when they are literally just bashing a person who did nothing wrong. reading doesnt mean people "romanticize" or "fetishize" that thing. thanks for adding and trying to explain.

    Ashy November 28, 2020 8:29 pm

    Once you've been warn about the mental triggers regarding rape, you can't judge nor rate it lowly just because of the triggers since you've been warn beforehand. The author knows what she's doing and you know what you're going to read. That's your own fault if you got triggered but please don't bash your criticisms here.

    noux2w November 29, 2020 5:51 am
    U still replying dude? I thought everyone else died... Senbonzakura

    Oh that was my first reply. I saw this chain of comments and decided that I wanted to share my opinion on things.

    Ashy November 29, 2020 7:22 am

    I didn't realize this topic started at Oct and had been continuing for so long since then with literal 4 pages of replies....

    PeaceFujoshi November 29, 2020 8:43 am
    I didn't realize this topic started at Oct and had been continuing for so long since then with literal 4 pages of replies.... Ashy

    Lmfaaoooooo- i shouldnt have replied but i wanted to defend (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

    Ashy November 29, 2020 12:09 pm
    Lmfaaoooooo- i shouldnt have replied but i wanted to defend (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ PeaceFujoshi

    You're really determined, I like that not insulting tho! Simply just, your persona's really interesting bruh XD

    PeaceFujoshi November 29, 2020 9:47 pm
    You're really determined, I like that not insulting tho! Simply just, your persona's really interesting bruh XD Ashy

    XDD