I see no problem with an adult talking about their sex life to a minor, I see it happen. And if you need consent in the talking. I don’t see him rejecting or in disgust. You know what would be weird? The parents talking about their sex life to their minor kid. That would be weird. Also I see it as being close because would any random ass teacher just tell you how their sex life is? Probably not.
I hope you're trolling cause of not I'm legit worried for you.
I'm just gonna take it as you trolling and close this issue cause I cannot take you srsly defending this.
If you're a minor and some grown ass adult is doing this to you, stop.
If you're an adult and you're talking to a 15 year old about your sex life, also stop.
I agree about it not being weird. I mean, teachers are supposed to teach and guide their students. And it's not just about the subjects but also some stuff about life. Which includes sex. And considering the situation in this story, they were also somewhat friends. I dunno about other cultures but where I grew up, students do get close with their teachers and become friends with them. And they usually talk about a variety of topics including sex.
While I also do agree that some parents would not see it in a positive light. Sex, for some people, is still a taboo. And the fact that it being discussed with a minor could really raise red flags.
Also, the situation would not be okay if it is a total stranger. I mean, that's just plain creepy and perverted. That is definitely a cause for a red flag.
You just honestly don't get that a teacher shouldn't do that. It doesn't matter if they're a teacher.
you can talk to them about your doubts and shit, but they shouldn't really open up about their sex issues with you. The relationship is not supposed to be one in which the student has to heat about the teacher's sex escapades.
This is going to be my last reply too.
Just imagine a female teacher who got close with a female student. They become friends, and they're close enough to talk about sex and stuff. Say, the younger student talks about her sex life or wants to talk and learn about sex. Of course, the teacher's first response is, considering the student is a minor and all, to stop the student. But, the teacher must also face the fact that no matter what she does, if the student wanted to do it, she'll do it with or without the teacher's guidance. So, the teacher also advises the student that if she really does go thru with it, practice safe sex. (You can change the gender to whatever in this example and it's still the same)
I do understand the dangers of grooming. And it does happen. And we should really be very cautious about it.
But! It also doesn't erase the fact that relationship where things I've mentioned above do exist. And you can't generalize this things.
Peace out ya'll!
Imagine being a grown ass adult and discussing your sex life with a student.
Kinda cringe ngl.
I couldn't get into the first story at all. The second story, however, super cute.