What he did could be considered both if you look up the UPDATED version of legal rape. But either way you should be bothered by both, both are completely traumatic experiences. It's insensitive to act like somehow one is less severe when both result in horrible PTSD. Either way Minhyuk has retraumatized our baby.
Listen bruh, there's nothing wrong with shipping problematic ships. I ship some twisted shit myself but that's because I like the toxicness of the relationship and I accept it as wrong, I don't try to downplay the toxicness to make it more romantic. If you want romance then Minhyuk is not your guy, might as well give up on that instead of making excuses for him. He gets worse too I'm sorry to say.
Btw, sorry for the long ass response lmao
I ship Minhyuk with him so much I hope he holds back in the next chapter so I don’t have to cut off the ship ヽ(`Д´)ノ