People acting very high and mighty over the cop. He’s not a horrible human being. He’s...

Devvy.v October 8, 2020 11:13 am

People acting very high and mighty over the cop. He’s not a horrible human being. He’s a human being. He was jealous, and realized (later rather than sooner) that what he did was wrong.

I thoroughly enjoy his story. At first I was mad, but I got over it when the main characters were able to see through his bullshit. And they decided to move on and grow stronger as a couple.

Y’all seriously gonna all act like you’ve never hurt anyone out of jealousy - known or unknown? Like, this can range from ANYTHING to talking crap about that person, to trying to sabotage their relationship(s). Not just pretending to sleep with one party, and then trying to get everyone riled up.

I can honestly say that, when I was 14, I was so angry with a friend, that I did fuck around with her boyfriend of two years, he did break up with her, and I did feel happy. Unlike this guy who apologized and didn’t even sleep with the boy. And before you attack me, I’ve done a lot of growing, I know what I did was wrong, and I would never do that again. I was in a sick, unhealthy place (without even realizing). I’ve taken steps to better myself, and my “side story” would be fire. So think about aaaaaall the wrong you’ve done in your life before utterly hating this dude.

I thought he was a dick, but he’s not like... A nazi or abuser or a pedo or something. That side story is never read.

Responses
    DCLXVI October 8, 2020 11:54 am

    THANK YOU OMG. I honestly thought I was the only one. Everyone's quick to get angry at anyone even hinting at messing with the main couple. He's not even a bad guy. He had his own issues he was dealing with. He even tried to set things right. And honestly the main couple was not perfect either. Everyone just talks about how angry they were at how the cop wanted to break up the couple, not even caring to realize that he's human too. Yeah, what he did was messed up. I'll admit it. It's obvious he has things he's going through. It just makes me upset that people automatically get angry at this cop who did something so human. Yes I understand it was wrong, I'm not defending him there. But he's HUMAN. I know EVERYONE has done something they're not proud of and hurt people. We hurt people because we're hurt. No, it's not right, but NO ONE is perfect.






    - Sorry if this is a mess... I honestly just wanted to rant my point and agree with the comment above... I'm not talking about every comment regarding the cop. You're entitled to your own opinion. This is mainly for those who outright hate him because he "tried to break the couple up" -

    Devvy.v October 8, 2020 12:16 pm
    THANK YOU OMG. I honestly thought I was the only one. Everyone's quick to get angry at anyone even hinting at messing with the main couple. He's not even a bad guy. He had his own issues he was dealing with. He... DCLXVI

    Exactly. 100%. Everyone has done wrong in their life, everyone has hurt someone. All we can do is ask for growth and change.

    And people are entitled to hate him. That’s their opinion, and it’s okay. But, at the same time, you shouldn’t wish for his entire life to be shit. Like, come on. He’s a human. He’s kinda dumb (really dumb). And what he did was a serious dick move. But that doesn’t mean everything he does is horrible. He just handled this situation poorly... he has a lot of growing to do, and I’d love to see that. He needs to find someone who truly cares about him.. and he needs to care about himself better. I don’t want to see him with his childhood love interest though... really... that’s not starting at the best point, and it seems really toxic.

    blueninja89 October 8, 2020 12:29 pm

    I just don’t like him because his exacts words were “he treats people like they’re a convenience” his whole mind side is use people before they use him. He’s a grown adult not a child. He’s developed into this mind set that even when presented with an opportunity with a drunk crush right in front of him chapters ago he went straight away to can I get away with assaulting him while he can’t say no and fully remember. He actual had that thought. He’s not a good person. Period. You’re just making excuses for him.

    xielian_inlove October 8, 2020 1:15 pm

    but he IS a horrible human being, have you forgotten all the things he’s done and said in this story?!

    uwu October 8, 2020 1:33 pm
    I just don’t like him because his exacts words were “he treats people like they’re a convenience” his whole mind side is use people before they use him. He’s a grown adult not a child. He’s develope... blueninja89

    THANK YOU omfg he's a grown ass man been horrible just because he can even he knows that

    yeoonnie October 8, 2020 5:10 pm

    Thank you for sharing! I think personal insight on the situation added a level of understanding that a simple “guys let’s not hate hyun min so much” probably couldn’t achieve

    Devvy.v October 9, 2020 1:03 am
    but he IS a horrible human being, have you forgotten all the things he’s done and said in this story?! xielian_inlove

    Aight. Thank you. So a human can do nothing to better themself or get better or do better. That’s basically what your response it. He can do no growing because you’ve labeled him as a horrible person, right off the back. No arc of redemption for a troubled person.

    Again. He is not a murderer or a rapist or a monster. He toyed around with an already teetering relationship, where both people obviously had their doubts and reservations. But there is nooooooothing he can do to redeem himself.

    Like, you know, coming face to face with his issues. Figuring out the root of his problems. Apologizing, and really meaning it (which he did).

    But again, you’re absolutely right.

    (Side note) With your logic, I couldn’t become a better person. There’s nothing I can do to be a better person. I’m a horrible person, who’s done horrible things. Because I ruined an already rocky relationship, one where one of the partners was already looking for an out. I can’t possibly redeem myself.

    Noooooo. That’s not how existing works.

    We all do wrong, and all we can do is try to be better next time. He’s still a mess, yes, but he can do better. And I, personally, hope he does. That would be refreshing. I’d like to see it.

    Devvy.v October 9, 2020 1:15 am
    I just don’t like him because his exacts words were “he treats people like they’re a convenience” his whole mind side is use people before they use him. He’s a grown adult not a child. He’s develope... blueninja89

    1.) he was going to kiss him because he would never get the opportunity again (those were the actual words in that chapter). If it didn’t go well, he’d play it off like a drunk joke. He wasn’t going to rape the dude. I’ve drunkenly made out with people, I’ve drunkenly tried to make out with people and got rejected. The difference is, he stopped. Unlike a lot of other stories like these, where the dudes don’t stop. (This kinda proves the opposite of what you’ve gotten upset about. And it shows he’s not a horrible person.)

    2.) yes, he is a cynic. He believes the worst in people right off the bat. And that is sad, but what happened to make him that way? I, personally, want to see the best in people, but the longer you exist, you realize humans are selfish creatures (inherently). You have to watch out for yourself, and protect yourself, because in the end, you are by yourself. That is how he copes with loss.

    You don’t have to like him. I’m not saying you have to like him. I don’t care if you DON’T like him. I like the idea of GROWTH, which is what many of you won’t even give him. Y’all are just as cynical as he is. Lol

    he is a dumbass. He is an idiot. He makes mistakes, and has hurt the two main people of this story. Yes. They should be mad with him, they should be guarded around him. But it doesn’t mean he can’t become a better person to himself and other people. And NOT fuck with other relationships.

    DCLXVI October 9, 2020 1:48 am
    1.) he was going to kiss him because he would never get the opportunity again (those were the actual words in that chapter). If it didn’t go well, he’d play it off like a drunk joke. He wasn’t going to ra... Devvy.v

    I've never respected someone this much in my life. You don't understand how much this means to me. I ALWAYS try to see the best in people. It's so hard to find someone who genuinely tries to understand the situation, who reads in between the lines. Everyone is so quick to anger, when they don't understand what the author is trying to convey.

    xielian_inlove October 9, 2020 2:49 am

    @devvy not sure why you are riding so hard for this FICTIONAL character, which the author made pretty clear from the moment she introduced him that he is an asshole. and sadly he is still doing asshole things like taking advantage of a drunk person.
    nothing you will say will make most readers like him whether a human irl has a second chance or not. you bringing in real life people to this comment section is irrelevant. also just because humans have second chances to redeem themselves etc doesn't make them immediately likeable. so get off your soapbox and chill tf out.

    blueninja89 October 9, 2020 2:59 am
    @devvy not sure why you are riding so hard for this FICTIONAL character, which the author made pretty clear from the moment she introduced him that he is an asshole. and sadly he is still doing asshole things l... xielian_inlove

    Lmfao. I mean sis.

    xielian_inlove October 9, 2020 3:10 am

    @blueninja for real :S people need to take proper perspective with this kind of shit (especially 2d stuff ~ imagine coming on here to lecture others on how they should regard a character lmao) ...instead of wasting my time with the most weak apologist rhetoric ever for a poorly constructed, awful character whose only purpose was to create a wedge between the two leads. i liked your comment above btw - too bad we can't upvote replies xo

    DCLXVI October 9, 2020 4:59 am
    @blueninja for real :S people need to take proper perspective with this kind of shit (especially 2d stuff ~ imagine coming on here to lecture others on how they should regard a character lmao) ...instead of was... xielian_inlove

    It's obviously not a waste if you're jumping in on a conversation you obviously have no clue about. This wasn't a lecture on how to regard a character, this was addressing those who bluntly hated him without any logic behind it. They jumped to the conclusion that he's trash, and honestly you're no different. And how do you know his purpose in the story? No one really does at this point. You obviously didn't understand what Devvy.v was trying to get across.

    xielian_inlove October 9, 2020 5:36 am

    @dcl LMAO say what? repeat that first sentence you wrote and make it make sense ( ̄∇ ̄") what a clown ...anyway, to address the rest of your barely comprehensible, rambly message, i as did the other reader in this thread as well as numerous separate posts literally expressed WHY we dislike the character. if you don't see logic, it's simply because you don't want to see (and i guess it gives you a hard on to be preachy in the comment section telling us how to think? pfft). why does it bother you so much that people don't think like you, especially when you are wrong? he IS trash.
    and fucking duh, i know his purpose because I say it played out for 15+ chapters. now the author is trying to give him a separate arc but thing is the author made the character very unlikable (regardless of whether he gets a second chance or not) and many of us really don't give a fuck if he gets to love or not. we'll probably tune in for smut though bc smut is smut & the art is nice. ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~

    anonienonie October 16, 2020 1:50 pm

    I do agree that people do dumb things, and if they show SINCERE growth and change, then they should be afforded the opportunity to flip the negative opinions others have. That doesn't excuse or erase the horrible things they did of course, but it shouldn't be the one thing that defines them, especially when they are trying to legitimately be better.

    We see this for the couple-- they had a lot of dumb misunderstandings, reacted poorly and hurt each other. However, we saw them grow and they are getting better at communicating. They're not perfect and will continue to make mistakes, but that's just life.

    As for the cop, I wouldn't dislike him so much if he actually showed growth. It seemed like we were gonna see some of that after he told the couple the truth etc, but per the latest chapters, it seems he's back to meddle some more. And there lies the problem-- he's not changed at all. It doesn't seem like he's at all remorseful which agitates a lot of people. Obviously we'll have to see what the future chapters hold-- I do hope he becomes a better human being. Personally, I still dislike him for the antics he pulled, as that's something I would not be able to forgive IRL.

    Also, tiny point of contention regarding the use of "horrible being" and comparing it to criminals... Perspective is important, so sometimes it's good to remember there are a lot of horrible cruel things that happen out in the world. However, that feels very dismissive. He's not a criminal (rapist/murderer) yes, but in the couple's world, he did some pretty fucked up shit that truly affected them. All violent criminals are horrible people, but not all horrible people are criminals (I dislike generalising things like this, but I'm sure you get my point.)