exactly i get like subtle fetishisy vibes when people are like ‘the uke should always be the small cute one and the seme should always be the big manly one’ because they want it to be like a straight couple aesthetic (as that is sadly considered the ‘norm’) and they want the feel of a straight couple without the female if that makes sense but in fact gay relationships are different. it’s not just set in stone ‘top’ and ‘bottom’ but people don’t understand taht :(
Hmm people should acknowledge that feminine guy can be top and a big very tuff guy can be bottom! What you look like or how you act like define your position! This is a battle of who can be dominant! It's about strength and how to lead! Not about the looks!
Yeah out of topic but if anyone interested in good manhwas with Switch couple I highly recommend 'like a tidal wave' or 'playtime with hakdo' I enjoyed these a lot especially the fist one
I hope people stop with comments wanting someone to always top or bottom, also they way it's always wanting the one who is a bit shorter of feminine to be uke and the opposite for the seme :/ stop these stereotypes please