But that was the first time Seonho was "selfish". And it's quite coincidental (not) that the friend gets this suicidal outbursts when Muyeong is with Seungho. If the friend was trying to commit suicide, he was in a hospital, surrounded by people prepared for that. The call Muyeong received was from a nurse. Muyeong is not a health care professional. He was told it was taken care of. So Seungho just puts some limits, you go running towards your friend who is taken care off or stay with me who you have left high and dry more than once in five months to go running to this "friend".
sorry if my childhood friend or my sister or anyone dear to me tried to commit suicide i will leave every thing to be by their side, since i know the feeling of being in dark place. let's say your brother were in hospital and tried to commit suicide but the doctor said that it fine now,
a) you will make sure that they are fine mentally and stay by their sides
b) or travel to god knows where with your lover
i know it unfair to compare brother to a friend but the friend is actually like a brother to Muyeong.
Seungho has a healthy body and mind he doesn't have the right to compare himself to someone who tried to commit suicide maybe the friend body would be fine but his mental health wouldn't been fine .
i guess you never known the feelings of losing someone to suicide.
You conveniently decided to not mention the part where there wasn't and actual suicide attempt but a manipulation. You are right I have never known losing someone to suicide and I'm thankful for that because it's not like my friends have not given me chance not to feel that. But what I did experience was a very close family member freaking stage a suicide so they could get attention. And that just one of the things they did. But I'm not here for muyeong's decision. But because you say Seungho is being manipulative. That is not what he's doing. He's setting limits and asking his partner to chose him for once. At that time Seungho certainly didn't have a healthy mind when he's plagued by anxiety. It wasn't a stupid part because it shows he is human and doesn't have infinite patience. And that he needs Muyeong to reassure him.
uh no, in my original comment I mentioned how the friend was a shitty person for faking suicide, so no, I didn't ignore it; but neither Myeong nor Seonho knew that the friend really faked it but Seonho told him to choose between them anyway, just imagine if the friend really tried to kill himself, will you still support Seonho for what he did?
Yes. But again, my look into it is biased. My life experience tells me that Seongho wasn't wrong to put himself first once. Because from my point of view he was relegated a little too much. And he allowed so. And it wasn't bad because Muyeong was caring for a friend. But the situation is bad. The friend has a family that cares for him. He's not alone. Yet this friend still DEMANDS for Muyeong to care for him. And so Seongho has the right to demand at least some attention from his SO. They are, after all, in a two way relationship. It's not a healthy relationship if one of them gets always relegated and just keeps his feelings bottled up. BTW yes your original comment you mentioned the friend being a shitty person, but your response to mine you elaborated some alternate scenario that conveniently ignored that.
no, I didn't ignore it, as I said at that time neither of them knew that the friend didn't try to kill himself but Seonho still made Myeong choose between him and his friend I'm making sense of why Muyeong was panicking and why he chose his friend over Seonho, I don't see the point in mentioning that the friend lied since my whole argument was neither of them knew that the friend lied about suicide, yes I agree that the relationship was unhealthy but still that was at the wrong moment to make him choose or start an argument, also, I'm sure the family friend didn't give a fuck about him but whatever.
no, I didn't ignore it, as I said at that time neither of them knew that the friend didn't try to kill himself but Seonho still made Myeong choose between him and his friend I'm making sense of why Muyeong was panicking and why he chose his friend over Seonho, I don't see the point in mentioning that the friend lied since my whole argument was neither of them knew that the friend lied about suicide, yes I agree that the relationship was unhealthy but still that was at the wrong moment to make him choose or start an argument, also, I'm sure the family friend didn't give a fuck about him but whatever.
the part where Seonho told his boyfriend to choose between him or myeong friend and if he chose his best friend Seonho will break up with him was pretty stupid, Seonho was selfish and also he came as manipulative to me, he really put Seonho in really hard place,dude his friend was overdosed what if his friend was really trying to commit suicide ?(i know the friend done that just to get Seonho come to hospital which is pretty shitty by the way ) but still if myeong friend really had overdosed himself and really tried to commit suicide i really was going to hate Seonho. but i hated myeong friend instead he is so manipulative , i can't believe he faked depression and hinted that he is thinking about suicide and then lying about overdosing himself,which by the way i'm sure when they told myeong that his friend was overdosed myeong really thought his friend tried to commit suicide this is why he panicked ,his friend noticed that myeong was worried about him committing suicide so his friend used his worries to manipulate him , that was pretty shitty.