what genre is this even? BDSM?

Anna-san September 28, 2020 3:07 pm

hmmm, I know it's hot and all but the girl in charge is an asshole, while reading I noticed her saying that she hates pain and likes to be rougher with guys than girls, so if she's a dom that's unacceptable. She can't even figure out why Hyunwoo is desperate and even injured himself! I don't understand why most femdom mangas have asshole MCs #-.-)

Responses
    ichirakuramenshop September 29, 2020 2:25 am

    i love her

    Yeezy101 September 29, 2020 5:06 am

    actually, that might be hinting towards some psychological trauma, with the whole "i'm rougher with guys". ya'll need to think deeper towards character actions and not take them at face value

    Yeezy101 September 29, 2020 5:09 am

    also, there's nothing wrong with saying that she hates pain and is rougher with guys as a domme. stop expecting dommes to be emotionally aware, some people just are bad at reading people and that doesn't make them less of a domme. the problem i have with the MC is that she doesn't get consent, especially with the blond guy.

    there's nothing wrong with everything else you've said.

    Anna-san September 30, 2020 12:02 am
    also, there's nothing wrong with saying that she hates pain and is rougher with guys as a domme. stop expecting dommes to be emotionally aware, some people just are bad at reading people and that doesn't make t... Yeezy101

    well you're right but if I was a sub I wouldn't want a dom who doesn't understand scales of pain and how much pressure they put my body in, because that would ruin the whole thing about consent in BDSM in my opinion, if you don't have enough knowledge about the physical strain caused by toys or actions you can't understand sub's limits and as we saw with Hyunwoo some subs act tough to satisfy the dom and don't use safe word.
    and if there's a psychological trauma it needs to be treated, not enough reason to be an asshole to other people. I'm just saying this is hot as a manhwa, I admit. but is not depicting the right BDSM.

    Chaotic October 1, 2020 11:20 am
    well you're right but if I was a sub I wouldn't want a dom who doesn't understand scales of pain and how much pressure they put my body in, because that would ruin the whole thing about consent in BDSM in my op... Anna-san

    Exactly. I don’t call this bdsm I call this a hot mess.

    Anna-san October 1, 2020 1:38 pm
    Exactly. I don’t call this bdsm I call this a hot mess. Chaotic

    LMAO