OMG!!! Why ask us??!! Most people here are Fujoshi(s) so of course YES!!!
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If u love each other then gooooooooooooo
BUT you are the one to make the last decision so I wish you happiness whatever you decide.
Note: It has to be mutual. If you answer yes and you don't really have any feelings for this person it'll just cause unnecessary pain (If you think "ohh but he's my bbf so I don't wanna hurt him" that's B.Sh8- Honesty is better than starting a relationship based on lies or sympathy). You have to think this over wholeheartedly because it takes a lot of guts to confess (especially same sex) and of course it's the same with answering the confession.
Just be truthful... that's my advice... no half-hearted decisions.
Well maybe you can just tell him first that you arent gay, and tell him your point of view about those mangas...
Then you just gotta decide and sort out your feelings.. if you like him enough to try to go out? Or if you dont feel like it could work? Or if you absolutely dont wanna date a guy... get inside your own mind, figure it out and then give him the answer and dont leave him hanging
all the luck :)
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yo, fudanshi, you do know that what youre describing is the perfect plot for yaoi/shounen ai right? hahaha. anywyas, if you dont have any feeling for him, just say so, why even need an advice? If the advice youre seeking is to how to say no, i would say straight up tell him nope, because im not gay or that because im not interest in you. you're just a friend. why would you need to come up with any other reason? you're both guy, you can both deal with it like men!
I think you should consider your feelings first. If you don't feel like you're going out with him is right, then don't. But first, tell him that you're definitely not gay and don't avoid him bcs of that. Tell him carefully that you can't go out with him, but you can befriends with him. Don't hang him with your answer cause it'll confuse him and hurt him. but if you like to give it a try, then tell him a YES
you have to go tell him you need some time to think about it immediately!
whatever your decision may be or even if you still didn`t make a decision yet - tell him that you aren`t disgusted but because you are not gay, just fudanshi, you are thinking it over since he is your best friend and that that just means that you take his confession seriously.
running away when he confessed to you hurt him already and ignoring him now (even if you are just trying to sort out your feelings) would hurt him even more.
then think about it seriously.
ask yourself: can you imagine yourself kissing him?
if so, that doesn`t necessarily mean that you are gay, it can just mean that you are bi or that you like him so much that gender doesn`t matter anymore.
like EmpressYaoi I think that sympathy isn`t enough reason to say yes, but if you are not sure you could tell him that and then ask him if he would like to take the risk to try it out even though.
since going back to being friends is impossible anyway because he loves you, it`s yours and his choice if you risk getting hurt by trying it out or getting hurt because you say "no" - but it`s important that you both know where each other stands.
There is a big difference between fantasy an reality. If u are not gay no need to pretend even if its for ur best friend.
wow... if you're not gay then refuse but tell him that you'll support him, because it's difficult for people to say that they are gay...
I am a girl & thinking from your POV i also would have been surprised if my best friend confessed to me. The solution is pretty simple, tell your friend that you are sorry for causing a misunderstanding & that you are not gay. If he really is your best friend then i am sure he'll understand.
And about what you should do....well it's your life, your decision. If you don't like him in a romantic way then it's only polite to let him know ASAP. Don't keep him hanging there. Nothing will come out of asking a bunch of strangers over the internet about YOUR life.
just go straight and say that ur not gay and u dont have any thing against gay people and that u enjoy reading stuff like that because it's funny
Hi guys i need some advice well the story was like this my bestfriend ask me if i was free in suterday and i say yes and after that he go to my house to pick me up but i was showering that time so my mom said come to his room. Because his my bestfriend he look at my computer and founds out i was reading boyxboy after i finish bathing he ask me if i was gay and i say calmly that i'm not after that he didn't talk to me at school. I thought he was disgusted at me but at luch time he come and said he have something to tell a really important so after school we go at the nearly part and i ask him what is it and he look at me serous and he say "go out with me" i was so shock and said are you kidding me and he said "no, your no disgust with homo right so go out with me" i don't know what to do so i just run and go home god i'm gaaay or something my sister was the one who reccomend me to read yaoi and its fine by me beacouse it just fantasie so please guy give me some advice . (Just wanted you to know that this is my sister account she the one who tell me to ask ypur guys some advance).