Guys, I need advice on something... You see, my girlfriend found out about my weird hobby...

random perv March 17, 2015 12:05 am

Guys, I need advice on something...

You see, my girlfriend found out about my weird hobby which is reading yaoi....and now she's really disgusted of me and even called me a homo perv....

Is it really weird for a straight guy to be reading this kind of stuffs? I mean, its only 2D right? Am I really considered homo?

But I've only dated girls? Waaaah! @-@ I dunno anymore!

Responses
    Mellowchellow March 17, 2015 12:13 am

    I don't think it's such a big deal. She's overreacting. Unless you are attracted to males, you sir; are not homosexual.

    tokidoki March 17, 2015 12:19 am

    Of course you're a perv - we all are, but to call your sexuality into question is just wrong. A lot of these are pretty great stories, regardless of the gender of the couples. Sounds like she needs to actually read what you are reading, then show her some yuri, then ask her what is wrong with what you are reading. Just because you enjoy reading this stuff, it does not make you gay, and for the record, I hate the shoujo (which is written specifically for females) because the characters are often weak and whiny, but love the m/m and the [usually] stronger characters - would that make a female question her sexuality? Not usually. She needs to broaden her horizons a bit. Hope that helps, and welcome to the pervy side - we have cookies.

    me March 17, 2015 12:21 am

    I don't think so. Surely there are many girls who'd like to have you as a boyfriend!! ;) Just be yourself

    Blue March 17, 2015 12:44 am

    My ex was bi so I don't think it's weird. I actually prefer a guy that likes bl since it means I have someone I can talk with about it. The yaoi world can be lonely in real life.

    random perv March 17, 2015 2:04 am
    This reply will be showed after approved! darkangel

    Uwaaaah! Pwede ka ba? Hahah jk~!

    random perv March 17, 2015 2:08 am
    I don't think it's such a big deal. She's overreacting. Unless you are attracted to males, you sir; are not homosexual. Mellowchellow

    I'm only attracted to 2D guys.....does that counts?.....but I'm not really attracted to males when it comes to real person.....

    random perv March 17, 2015 2:08 am
    I don't think so. Surely there are many girls who'd like to have you as a boyfriend!! ;) Just be yourself @me

    Thank you ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄

    kai March 17, 2015 2:26 am

    You're not a homo, I think. My younger bro has a girlfriend but I suspect he's not opposed to homo stuff either. Because when we were watching a movie the other day, there's a homo scene (a guy making a move on another guy and unbuttoning his shirt) and he wasn't disgusted, but looks fascinated instead. I thought he would at least curse the scene, but noooo. I think my brother's like that because he is actually quite secure about his sexuality. And I think you are too, a person who is secure in his sexuality, thus you could enjoy yaoi without it affecting your sexual preference.

    ❀sakurako❀ March 17, 2015 2:34 am

    no , you are not a homo .You are one of those called fudanshi.You girlfriend is lucky to have a fudanshi boyfriend .

    Ria March 17, 2015 2:48 am

    It's not weird.. Your gf has some issues

    rhythmsky101 March 17, 2015 3:05 am

    di naman ata kuya. nabigla ata sya ehh and basically kapag may bago tayong nalalaman/nakita ang unang normal na reaksyon is either matakot or magalit. kaya cguro ganun naging reaksyon ng gf mo. pero no worries di ka naman bading ehh hobby mo lang talaga ang mgbasa ng yaoi. :) ang importante is secure ka sa sexuality mo. :)

    Anonymous March 17, 2015 4:59 am
    di naman ata kuya. nabigla ata sya ehh and basically kapag may bago tayong nalalaman/nakita ang unang normal na reaksyon is either matakot or magalit. kaya cguro ganun naging reaksyon ng gf mo. pero no worries ... rhythmsky101

    just make her read shounen ai mangas which is very sweet and sexy then she after she tasted it once there is no turning back and if she likes it read her something that is more sexy where they have s ex but it doesnt show and again after she liked it she will thought it might be nice and what happened and some later you guys both will be reading that together l promise cause it is what happened to me dude and l am girl sometimes l wish if l was born as a boy l would still addicted to this mangas well it is nice to being a girl

    I Thot You Was a Toad March 17, 2015 5:03 am

    Mmm , depends on what you fantasize about.

    I Thot You Was a Toad March 17, 2015 5:06 am
    Mmm , depends on what you fantasize about. I Thot You Was a Toad

    To elaborate further: if the thought of sucking another man's cock turns you on, or having your cock sucked by another man turns you on, then I would say that there is at least a little, itty-bitty part of you that is definitely gay, or at the very least, bi.

    ma-kun March 17, 2015 6:15 am

    Then experiment yourself. date a guy. just kidding! don't take it to heart. reading something like that doesn't change one's preference in liking a certain gender to another. it's just a hobby. if your girlfriend is still disgusted then it's her own problem. and she has the guts to be your girlfriend if she didn't even hear you out why you're reading Yaoi. she's being too judgemental over simple things like this. BTW, I'm below 18 and reading Yaoi is SUPER natural to me. I've been reading it for about 6 years up until now. (▰˘◡˘▰)

    ma-kun March 17, 2015 6:20 am
    To elaborate further: if the thought of sucking another man's cock turns you on, or having your cock sucked by another man turns you on, then I would say that there is at least a little, itty-bitty part of you ... I Thot You Was a Toad

    All of us are actually Bisexuals. we all like both genders, we just pick out the best preference over the two of them. And sucking someone's cock can't satisfy you to turn yourself on. try putting something in your butt. it will make you think more if you're gay or just sexually addicted having something sticking to your butt. try Femdom or BDSM if you're addicted.

    rood March 17, 2015 7:12 am

    Na experience ko na rin yan. Nalaman ng bf ko n ngbabasa ako ng yaoi, d nya rin maintindihan ang hobby ko, kya ang ending ng break kmi. . . .

    random perv March 17, 2015 7:45 am
    Na experience ko na rin yan. Nalaman ng bf ko n ngbabasa ako ng yaoi, d nya rin maintindihan ang hobby ko, kya ang ending ng break kmi. . . . rood

    Yah...they don't understand us...I want an understanding gf for once.....so pwede ka ng a? Jk~!

    random perv March 17, 2015 7:48 am
    You're not a homo, I think. My younger bro has a girlfriend but I suspect he's not opposed to homo stuff either. Because when we were watching a movie the other day, there's a homo scene (a guy making a move on... kai

    Tnx for the explanation....haays, somehow I feel at ease now....xD

    random perv March 17, 2015 7:57 am
    Then experiment yourself. date a guy. just kidding! don't take it to heart. reading something like that doesn't change one's preference in liking a certain gender to another. it's just a hobby. if your girlfrie... @ma-kun

    Hai hai , I'll try dating a guy....xD jk~! Well, I've been reading yaoi for 4 years now! Guess your my sempai in this hobby? XD wait, below 18? Just how old are you? Don't worry, I'm also below 18, were comrades! ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ