You had me until the blaming part. He could have done something prior to that situation but no one is responsible for getting raped. No one. It doesn't matter what you did or what you said. Hell some people maybe have given consent initially and then took it back. Still rape.
Read your comment again you said besides the rape so we are good.
My apologies!
That’s why I said “besides the rape”. Meaning that no one should blame him for being raped. I never said that he should be blamed for that
Yes I misread your initial comment, sorry about that!
I hated their relationship. What happened to Tom telling Jaemin everything? They had zero communication and just acted like nothing happened which is wrong. Their relationship is kinda toxic. Tom even said it himself that he could’ve pushed him away, so why didn’t he? What happened to him is horrible but he has to admit that besides the r*pe, he is also partially to blame.