I mean I don't know if he just wants to f him, but I wouldn't call him a player. We've only seen him with one guy and that was his sex friend. I don't know if its because he rejected his sex friend but I don't see why we hate him because of it. I, personally, don't really like sex friend relationships because it seems like it almost always ends up that way but lets be honest Mr. Han made what he wanted very clear and when he realised the guy was starting to develop feelings for him, he broke it off so that he wouldn't lead him on. Its not like he straight up insulted him or used him (because they were technically using each other). He told him calmly, I don't have feelings for you and if you have feelings for me, then I think its time to end this because I don't want to be in a relationship with you and I don't want to hurt your feelings by continuing this. Maybe its just me but I feel like most people in that situation would use that persons feelings to their advantage and really get toxic. So meh...he doesn't seem like a bad person. Especially since he knows about Parem's feelings and hasn't forced him into anything (except that drunk kiss if thats considered forcing)
I love how everyone is hating on Mr. Han for no reason