Its a feeling that cant compare to doing a woman

Lilu4ia September 21, 2020 4:36 am

This is a question ive been thinking about for a while but
When people say that i get frustrated. Like girls have asses too. They have the same function too. You don't have to go to a guy just for anal sex. I mean if you like guys it’s different. But if you’re a straight guy, i don't get why its common to go to a gay guy just for anal?
It just seems unnecessary and heartless, i guess, to me. To the guy and girl both. Idk.
(and when i say guys I'm not speaking generally but for those who do)

Responses
    yeoonnie September 21, 2020 5:57 am

    YES ME TOO like i was doing research like do men's asses feel better than female asses??????? why is it like?! why does yaoi manga make it seem like it's so fantastic??

    and branching off of that, gay men irl are like 'the sensation of anal is amazing... etc.etc.' but isn't male anal the same as female anal? like? maybe the prostate makes them clench more but like? i'm just confused media is confusing me

    Pastel September 21, 2020 7:07 am

    probably because anal is harder cuz u need to use lube/clean n stuff while vaginal sex is pretty much up and ready to go and it won’t hurt as much. It depends on the person though.

    ren__san September 21, 2020 10:50 am

    LOOOOOOL, it's weird, right? XD
    I think they say it because a lot of girls are usually averse to anal? I mean, when you think of sex with a girl, you immediately think vaginal, right?

    But there's actually a lot of erogenous spots within the anus of both males and females. Sure, men have the prostate, but I'm assuming a fair many of females can feel great from their butt if they prepare and get used to it right.

    Other than the prostate, I reeeaaaalllly don't think that there's any difference (LOLOLOLOLOL)

    ren__san September 21, 2020 10:56 am
    LOOOOOOL, it's weird, right? XDI think they say it because a lot of girls are usually averse to anal? I mean, when you think of sex with a girl, you immediately think vaginal, right?But there's actually a lot o... ren__san

    Also, this really bothers me, but you've got to prepare a butt. I mean, just because it's been penetrated before doesn't mean that it'll go straight in the next time (unless like there's left over lube or whatever from last time and it was just a few hours before. Actually, no, you still gotta stretch it). However sensitive a butt is, if it isn't wet and stretchy enough, there will be pain later. Tears, bleeding, soreness and pain...

    At the time that you're doing the doing, it won't seem to matter as much, but, like, it'll hurt later and you'll have to abstain until it's better unless you want to worsen it;; Or be, like, really careful;;; But all that's preventable if only you take the 5-10 minutes it takes to prep a butt;;;;

    yeoonnie September 21, 2020 4:16 pm
    Also, this really bothers me, but you've got to prepare a butt. I mean, just because it's been penetrated before doesn't mean that it'll go straight in the next time (unless like there's left over lube or whate... ren__san

    IKR........ at this point when i read yaoi i think of it as a separate organ that only exists in a fictional world lmao there's too many questions.... too many questionable scenarios that never get answered lol apparently in yaoi everyone's butthole is still loose from the night before and not dirty at all.... (do they poop? i've always wondered this)