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I get what you are saying.. but I don't think he made the decision rashly.....especially since he has been thinking about marrying her.....and honestly we cant ignore the fact that he basically just defended her too.....and although is is presenting himself strongly....he hasn't done it aggressively yet....so it means that she can reject it if she wants.....but it would be wise for her to actually think about it...and her child's future, but then again I understand her background. And I really like this development honestly....I would have actually questioned him if he had given up since day one about taking responsibility as a parent, but you can tell he is serious and dedicated. I don't think if I was a guy I would be able to just ignore the fact I have a child somewhere like that.

Plus she didn't want him in the baby's life at first which would've ultimately resulted in her losing her job and the baby losing its father. That isn't good for either party. So many people are single parents because the other half isn't willing to pick up the slack. She should be counting her blessings.

Lol I don't agree with the counting your blessings thing but guys MARRIAGE IS A CHOICE and luckily divorce in Korea is legal unlike some country I might hail from lol. So currently nothing is being forced yet. They're not yet married and this girl just has to be clear and say what she wants. This dude has been just the most akward yet accommodating dude. I'm not saying the girl is at fault. In fact this manhwa is a refreshing take on unplanned pregnancies (tho still problematic on some fronts) and it just shows how we have to deal with consequences amd develop our characters to face the problems. I'm sure our girl will be able to do that despite her upbringing.

I'm only saying " count your blessings' because there is a man willing to take responsibility for his kid. Most one night stands won't end up like that. I'm also not saying that they have to get married as long as they can both be there for the child.

I think she’s just scared cuz of her childhood. Like when she found out she was pregnant she went to her mother & some phrases that stuck with me are “not every can accept a pregnancy they didn’t want” or “she was forced to get married cuz of her”. I think she feels the same thing is gonna happen to her cuz her situation is the same. Her parents marriage was a “failure”. She was clearly attracted to him to hook up & she’s open to trying it out, but I think the number 1 thing holding her back is that fear.

Yeah that's true.....and I feel like that's the reason she is also not fully pushing him away and actually going along with what he says.....I feel like she unconsciously looking for some kind of assurance ...and isn't sure yet what direction to move....I could be wrong but that's how it seems to me

i agree!

i agree w u as well

for this, i understand where you're coming from but the thing is, to me at least, it felt very forced... I'm super glad he has taken proper responsibility, but the thing is he announced they were getting married and she did not even say yes to the proposal first. Yea, HE** was thinking about it, she was still contemplating. I still believe it was extremely rash considering when he did ask for her input, she did not give him a solid answer. She can still definitely reject him, but the lie he created will make it harder for her. Her child can still have a wonderful future, so many kids are with single parents and theyre doing wonderfully. That's just my take on it. Even if he defended her, that should be expected of him. We shouldn't praise him for doing the bare minimum and we also shouldn't praise him for doing wayyyy too much in reference to announcing the marriage she didnt agree upon.

When i said my original comment i meant he put A LOT of pressure on her. Of course she can decline, but she'd have to deal with the consequences of his lie. The girl was actually rather clear when he brought up marriage and she said she needed time. She has been putting in just as much effort by attending all of their "dates" and trying to get closer. He rushed her and I just don't appreciate that.