woojin deserves a better friend. Not saying that he's entitled to a relationship with Ji...

H0M0-CHAN September 16, 2020 5:46 pm

woojin deserves a better friend.

Not saying that he's entitled to a relationship with Jiho, but what kinda friend brags about their lover to someone they know has feelings for them

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    nunyabusiness September 16, 2020 5:55 pm

    lol is he suppose to walk on eggshells around his friend forever?? friends r for sharing ur happiness and pain with so obviously he wants to gush about his lover i don’t think he’s bragging. I understand it can be hard to be friends with someone u have feelings for/someone who has feelings for u but staying a friend means supporting them anyway. i rlly don’t think he did it to rub it in his friend’s face it just seems like a normal thing that friends would talk to each other about

    H0M0-CHAN September 16, 2020 8:04 pm
    lol is he suppose to walk on eggshells around his friend forever?? friends r for sharing ur happiness and pain with so obviously he wants to gush about his lover i don’t think he’s bragging. I understand it... nunyabusiness

    I didn't say that.

    But I've been in a situation where I've had a new boyfriend and one of my friends had a crush on me. I didn't immediately go to that friend and start saying how brilliant, wonderful, and awesome the guy was, then list off a bunch of things he did for me that were similar to what my friend also did for me.

    To me personally it would have been insensitive to his feelings. I introduced my friend to my boyfriend a while after I had A) Made sure we were compatible and B) Properly rejected my friend and let a bit of time pass after the rejection. I didn't reject him then immediately talk about another guy.

    Anyway, it's all fiction. It was just something that irked me slightly ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    mafuyu September 16, 2020 9:19 pm

    yeah its kinda insensitive to expect woojin to be wholly supportive and absolutely thrilled that the person he was in love with loves someone else. he needs time to move on, and jiho should've given him that consideration.

    i feel like its wrong to say woojin is a bad friend if he can't immediately set aside his feelings to listen about jiho's love life. woojin has feelings too