Uh, how would YOU feel, if you were literally RAPED, and then treated like a prostitute? Huh? Oh, and then getting victimised by the guy who raped you. The Uke didn't even remember losing his virginity to the seme. I respect your opinion if you don't like the Seme, but it's not right to say "he had it coming." Lol.
I get what you mean, and that's usually the logical way of thinking things. But see that's the difference between yahwi and jooin, because one thinks based on logic and the other one bases on feelings, they're just both of different personality traits.
(Let's put the rape aside a bit and discuss the fuck buddy relationship). Yahwi has the same thoughts as your statement, and from his perspective, he did nothing wrong as he has clearly laid out the terms from the start. Jooin however, thinks that "after all we've been through? nothing changes?" because he expects empathy or reciprocation from yahwi because he goes out of his way to care for him way more than what a fuck buddy does. So its like yahwi thinks he gets a pass because he said they were just fuck buddies, but to jooin, its giving him mixed signals because what kind of fuck buddies go on dates and celebrate bdays. So u know, yahwi is safely able to lead him on, and be affectionate, and "play with his feelings" because in the end, he has his "i cant be in a commitment" safety net. But to jooin, it's torture because his actions are getting his hopes up. Idk if i explained it clearly lol but my partner is the feelings type and I'm the logic type, so it took me a while to be able to understand him and u know, stop being a robot lol. It's logic vs feelings and really, its a matter of perspective and what characteristic you value more ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
Ok, lol. So uhhh, am I the only whose kind of disliking the uke? I mean, he had it coming... The seme did warn him and told him what was going to happen but he chased after him anyways and now he’s acting like he never knew any of that was going to happen and that he was a victim... I mean I get the fact that the Seme did that but like why is he getting mad? Wasn’t he the one that wanted that? Anyways, no hate but like am kind of getting annoyed with the uke.Σ(  ̄□ ̄||)