The problem with so many yaois

girlgot2leVe September 11, 2020 8:16 pm

Saying this isn’t ok isn’t kink shaming, this is literally borderline beastiality! I honestly don’t know why of all sexualities they chose MLM to make the butt of all this, now almost all yaois are rapey and people are fetishizing MLM, but if it was a straight smut comic that was rapey everyone would say that’s wrong, it’s honestly getting out of hand now, if killing stalking was a boy and a girl no one would be shipping them like fujoshis do. I’m genderfluid so I don’t really consider myself as a part of MLM or WLW since I’m a bi enby but this is making me way uncomfortable

Responses
    nona September 11, 2020 8:19 pm

    I do get you but not all fujoshis are like that. And not all yaois have seme rape the uke

    H1th3r3 September 11, 2020 8:20 pm

    true! I think those shy about being honest about their kinks hide behind BL.

    girlgot2leVe September 11, 2020 9:20 pm
    I do get you but not all fujoshis are like that. And not all yaois have seme rape the uke nona

    in general i don’t even like the term fujoshi because for one it’s literally translates to ‘vile woman’ also the thing is that literally 95% of the people who call themselves fujoshis are really problematic like if i’m being honest here as someone who used to call myself a fujoshi and as i’ve realized the problems under this term if you’re not like fujoshis just spare yourself the trouble and don’t call yourself a fujoshi. also literally obviously not all are like that but the problem is the trend of the lack of consent shown constantly and especially in bls and yaoid

    Yuki September 11, 2020 10:36 pm

    What fors MLM or WLW means?

    Yuki September 11, 2020 10:37 pm
    What fors MLM or WLW means? Yuki

    *does

    alternest September 11, 2020 10:47 pm

    aklsdjfl;aksdj it ain't that deep? you don't like furry, it's ok, go and read something else that isn't just furry pwp. imo this wouldn't count as bestiality bc there's like...human sentiance, and he's pretty closely human shaped. He just has fur and an animal head!

    Beastmen is more of a thing nowadays and there's def het smut with it lol. Hana and the Beastman is also ripped on this site but it actually has a story between the smuts. Idk what you're looking at but I see comments on het smut all the time with ppl who don't like how noncon or dubcon it is or ppl who hate the stupid plots. rapey love interests isn't just a "yaoi" thing it's a smut/romance thing lol

    also, 'fujoshi'...literally it means rotten woman sure, but the context of it in its original language is pretty important? iirc, it's a word that's fighting back against the stereotypical idea of the "normal" or "proper" jp woman, it's like how queer is being reclaimed

    Immy September 11, 2020 10:55 pm

    I understand where your coming from and I struggle to read yaoi that has these events to the extreme but this is a work or fiction. If you don’t like this and you think that the majority of yaoi is like then don’t read it! Stick to the nice one and the shounen ai types. Your commenting 9 chapters in and ridiculing people who think this is ok. We are reading this and all the yaoi that you say is bad because we want to and we enjoy it for different reason. If this how you felt then you should have commented this on chapter 3 where this was the rapey characteristics were shown.

    TailedBeastMode September 12, 2020 2:13 am
    in general i don’t even like the term fujoshi because for one it’s literally translates to ‘vile woman’ also the thing is that literally 95% of the people who call themselves fujoshis are really problem... girlgot2leVe

    There are definitely issues in yaoi/bl that make ppl uncomfortable, but the way ppl interpret the terms fujoshi and fudanshi can also have problems if you over generalize. Get In The Robot is my go to for anime theory and they had a yaoi/bl episode on youtube if u r interested, but she basically goes through the development throughout the years. Lol i kno it's just a genre, but so is the term fujoshi which was likely coined by bl fans who think of it as a joke. Personally I don't really care cuz I'm a fan of multiple genres so I'm as invested in all romances, but I don't think there is a problem with anyone enjoying one romance genre over the other. Like why would I shame someone for liking Fifty Shades of Grey, it just don't make sense.

    girlgot2leVe September 12, 2020 2:38 am
    What fors MLM or WLW means? Yuki

    mlm mean men love men, it’s basically just refers to a man that’s attracted to a man, and wlw is women love women which is a woman that’s attracted to another woman

    girlgot2leVe September 12, 2020 2:42 am
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    yes of course i know it’s fiction but it’s gloryfying abuse, rape and lack of consent. there’s a difference between bringing such topics to life that’s a different thing but what’s happening is that people are normalizing these things which is really harmful to the affected group which is gay men.

    nona September 12, 2020 2:59 am
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    Thank you!! Just now I was like WOW WOW WOW !!!! Where this came from

    nona September 12, 2020 3:02 am
    aklsdjfl;aksdj it ain't that deep? you don't like furry, it's ok, go and read something else that isn't just furry pwp. imo this wouldn't count as bestiality bc there's like...human sentiance, and he's pretty c... alternest

    Facts someone that actually gets it....I kinda got a little tired of ppl judging fujoshi only because is two guys when in fact they do the same thing on the others too