Although she is the one who excuses a lot of the bad behaviors men/boys are doing in what is essentially "boys will be boys ╮(￣▽￣)╭" I wonder how much she was convinced of this when she was younger. I wonder if the first people who sexually assaulted her were people who she had close relations with, and if maybe managed to gaslight her or convince her that she was at fault for everything, and that the assailant was innocent, even if he was clearly not. She was probably told by people who were meant to protect her (i.e. her parents, relatives, teachers, siblings, etc) that she had to keep quiet, or that she was at fault for what happened. She's probably reflecting that behavior. If anything, as much as I am unhappy about her actions and what she's doing, I feel bad for what's happen to her. It just makes me wonder how much fucked up shit happened in her life to get to this point.
Although she is the one who excuses a lot of the bad behaviors men/boys are doing in what is essentially "boys will be boys ╮(￣▽￣)╭" I wonder how much she was convinced of this when she was younger. I wonder if the first people who sexually assaulted her were people who she had close relations with, and if maybe managed to gaslight her or convince her that she was at fault for everything, and that the assailant was innocent, even if he was clearly not. She was probably told by people who were meant to protect her (i.e. her parents, relatives, teachers, siblings, etc) that she had to keep quiet, or that she was at fault for what happened. She's probably reflecting that behavior. If anything, as much as I am unhappy about her actions and what she's doing, I feel bad for what's happen to her. It just makes me wonder how much fucked up shit happened in her life to get to this point.