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Fujoshi_Bleeds September 3, 2020 10:13 pm

Everyone seems to be talking about kangwoo and I have some opinions about that. I mean, most of the people are right.Why did they even inculude him? Just to add the triangle tag? Because he was a guy who dated the MC for 8 YEARS. And he just gave up that easy? I mean you guys could have taken a like to him or loved him but I'm talking about the plot, the webtoon's sense. I mean even if how much I think a guy who got dumped after dating 8 years shouldn't be that obdient? Anyway It was not making sense but It was a good read.

Responses
    kazis September 5, 2020 10:44 pm

    Well, people divorce after decades of being together...

    Fujoshi_Bleeds September 9, 2020 12:22 am
    Well, people divorce after decades of being together... kazis

    Well, that's true but It depends on the reason too. If you'r husband or wife cheated on you wouldn't you want to divorce too? Even if you were married for years. But I cannot find a stable reason about their reliationship nor their break up.

    kazis September 9, 2020 5:48 am
    Well, that's true but It depends on the reason too. If you'r husband or wife cheated on you wouldn't you want to divorce too? Even if you were married for years. But I cannot find a stable reason about their re... Fujoshi_Bleeds

    Hmmm, I think the uke (already forgot the names, sorry) was considering the break-up, because the other option was making hin suffer too much. Like, he didn't know exactly the reason but staying with the seme he always felt weird and started hating himself for these feelings, considering he's the one who confessed to him first. Because of that he neither couldn't bring himself to speak about the problem nor could he just leave. So he has been waiting and waiting, suffering and hoping that the problem would somehow resolve itself. Of course, that was impossible. In all honesty, he had to speak with the seme as soon as possible. But it was his first relationship and he was a bit of a dum-dum, so he waited till he could no longer bear it and left. It leaves the seme in a bad situation, but I always think that it takes two people to make a relationship, but in that case neither of them was... hm, trying to be in a relationship, if it makes sense. And if staying with someone causes you mental (or physical) pain you don't have to always endure it :( I agree that the problem could have been resolved through communication. But not at this point. You see, if all these years brought only pure happiness and then the uke suddenly decided to leave, it would definitely be strange. But consider that most of these years he was convincing himself not to leave. Well, that what I gathered from the story. Sorry for the long post.

    Fujoshi_Bleeds September 9, 2020 1:06 pm
    Hmmm, I think the uke (already forgot the names, sorry) was considering the break-up, because the other option was making hin suffer too much. Like, he didn't know exactly the reason but staying with the seme h... kazis

    It's been a long time since I've read a nice reply like this. I only talked with my experience with other mangas as a person that has never been in a relationship so, I really apperiacte your reply. But even If I tried hard I could not understand what you said exacly because of my poor english and you must've understood about it from my grammar I guess. It just didn't make sense to me(the manga). But thank you for the reply.

    kazis September 9, 2020 1:34 pm
    It's been a long time since I've read a nice reply like this. I only talked with my experience with other mangas as a person that has never been in a relationship so, I really apperiacte your reply. But even If... Fujoshi_Bleeds

    Oh, I'm not a native speaker either o-o" (lmao, it's somewhat funny, and I really couldn't tell that about you, I had no clue!). Soo... maybe I couldn't explain it properly either, sorry...
    But either way, sometimes you just don't get characters, not because of bad understanding of the story but just because you can't accept their actions, I guess... And I think it's okay.
    And I thank you for the good conversation, too :)