sadism is one thing, but to manipulate someone into thinking they're special to you and giving all these hints of wanting them and making sure they see no one else but you, then going ahead and sleeping around expecting them not to react negatively, is an asshole move. it's got nothing to do with being a sadist it's just being an asshole. sadism is a preference. being an asshole is a personality. don't mix up both.
Oh god
"continually being exposed to situations in which sexual enjoyment or of excitement with the anguish of others can cause sadism "
"the suffering of others gives pleasure and observing that suffering feels good."
Being an asshole is a personality needed when you're a sadist. Like tf you're a sadist but you're kind? Is this : hypocrisy?
He did all of those things to see uke get HURT, hence asshole, hence sadist. Saying don't mix both is laughable sadism doesn't live without being an ass because you're basically being an ass and hurting someone.
no matter how cute that scene was... i stil hate how hachi treated our baby (/TДT)/