haha I'm bored so i'll continue to reply! it's my choice to do so after all...
Yul is not normal! even he acknowledged it in the end, but what did it take for him to do that? He had to be pushed to the edge so it'd finally become clear to him that what he was doing is wrong.
All I can say you can't justify Yul's actions because he made the choice to become selfish. Just like how you cant justify how Yujin would sleep around before. Yul did not handle the situation in an okay manner, people like him go to jail in the real world. Yes, I pity his situation but does that justify his actions? no!
It seems like you have biases when it comes to people like Yujin, since you mention stuff like "people like him", but unlike Yul, Yujin cared about the wellbeing of the people around him. Because you seem like you have this trauma or stigma against "people like him", the one here who is close-minded/judgmental is you.
do you get what I'm saying? To act like Yul in the real world is not normal nor should it be romanticised/justified. A person like Yul needs professional help, and Sian shouldn't be held responsible for how he turned out.
Please if ever you like anyone, don't try to show your love like Yul. Seek professional help instead. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
Your saying the same point im saying he been pushed and yes he figerd out he was doing wrong and try to hide and fix it. Yea he a teenager somebody that makes mistakes and it not like he was raise correctly anyways. He could've went to jail for his mistakes he trying to fix until he breaks and doesn't care anymore and knows it isn't fair to him and place guilt on him so he attempts suicide.
When i mean people like him i mean people who aren't born with a acutal normal happy family. It natural for people to love and care and as the most human out of everybody i think the most loyal person would be yul.
This is a story and justifying him and him only but abuse and sexual assault is really bad. But ofc he was misunderstood when he pin her down on the bed just to talk to her.
I get what your SAYING but for him its misunderstanding and judging a book by its cover. This too can happen in real like and most likely common for women to scam men. You are telling me things i already know and i trying to tell u things but you keep getting mad about it. Im only mad about this story but your on another level. Stop.
I maybe loyal but if she/he choose to leave me thats fine. Maybe i might use my words to tall to them and commit abuse and assault.
I had a typo but i ment was maybe i might use my words to talk to them and not commit assault.
You admitted that he makes mistakes but then goes on making him look like a victim when the real victim in their particular situation here is Sian. He may be the victim of abuse in his family, but in his relationship with Sian, he's the abuser. Being abused does not excuse his action.
Also, you had said that if he was real, you would help him,, but how exactly? Sian had practically done the same thing but you said that it was her fault for showing him love and leaving him when the fact is, she leaves him not because she's done using him or bcuz she's selfish but bcuz of how unpredictable and dangerous he had become. Human behaviour is far more unpredictable and hard to understand in real life. We could easily sympathize with Yul bcuz we know his thought process, what his past is like. Sian could not sympathize with him bcuz Yul never really opened up to her and even if he did, she had every right to cut him off her life if he's physically and mentally dangerous to her.
In this story we know his past and who he is. Like ive told you. Hes is called the abuser for WHAT? he did blackmail the blonde to stay away from her like every other man in this fucking earth does. Did he fucking purposely touch her boob or hit her? Maybe tried to grab her and talk to her so she can FUCKING UNDERSTAND what hes doing.
I'd probably RAISE HIM BETTER unlike his real family who treats him like shit. I said what i said about her for NOT TAKING 10 MINUTES OF HER TIME TO TALK TO HIM SO SHE STOPS FUCKING WHINING AND SAYING SHES SOOO TRAMATIZE AND RAPED. Its miss communication if YOU DIDNT SEE THAT. Cutting him off is a good choice in her point of view but yul still needed to talk to her about him and the past and how he changed. But he is misunderstood. I see your side why dont you see my side?
I can't actually believe you are defending yul's actions. Like I'm actually just surprised
I tried to see your side but the truth is your points aren't valid in a real life situation. I dont get how you can empathize with Yul but have zero empathy for Sian. Sian was also had a hard time growing up, Yul abused her and manipulated her and traumatized her. Thats it. He is an abuser.
theres always misunderstandings in life, but the way Sian reacted in our society's standards is actually normal. Yul in the other hand is not. Abuse is not just sexual or physical it can also be mental and emotional. It was the right choice for her to cut him off.
Why trouble yourself with someone who brings you trauma, in Sians situation she needed to prioritize her safety before Yuls problems. If I were Sian of course I'd be scared to even come close to Yul what more talk to him, because again Yul hurt and traumatized her.
If you think of this issue objectively, Sians reaction was understandable and really isnt responsible for anything Yul does or decides to do.
honestly Im going on and on with this now because, I really dont like seeing this type of mindset. Yuls mindset. And I'll start being rude now. Seriously, it's just pathetic pretty much just how an incel would think. A narcissistic incel someone who'd need to grab a girl to catch her attention, someone worse than someone who just sleeps around. Someone who's willing to hurt someone just to prove a point. It's all just really pathetic and disgusting. I get it all people have their reasons and backgrounds, but Yuls mind is just too weak to comprehend anything because he was distracted with all his wants and desires; overall self-centered and entitled.
i am truly curious on how old you are.. if you're below the age 12, i hope you can still find a way to change your thought process. If your older maybe try talking to someone wiser and more educated in this type of stuff, so you to clearly understand why yuls actions aren't at all acceptable nor should be easily forgiven...
Is english your first language, I honestly can't really understand what you're trying to say in some of your posts.
Are you stupit? Im obviously over 12 and i mention school i took. Also how does this relate to the story? I had some typos with my big hand but yes i am over 12 honey.
Your talking to an adult if u wana hear and even aldut makes some mistakes and not effect much. How about you check your age and see if your mature enough for this story and comments. You can get angey and text back some made up exuse and ill ignore your ass.
oh its just coz based from ur comments u seemed like an undereducated 9 year old... I was wondering why were reading a comic like this when u dont have the comprehension.
such a shock i was talking to an adult this whole time, i wouldn't have guessed. ╮(￣▽￣)╭
rather than angry, im just disappointed there are people like u in the world
Ya'll this is not a relationship that you are supposed to ship..he is literally a MANIPULATOR AND A ABUSER. He KIDNAPPED her I don't care how long it was. He needs help, no relationship should ever be like this. Both people need to want to be in a relationship. He is so controlling he basically implied that guys at her school were talking about her grossly so that she would change her very innocent and normal profile picture. And he sent that class mate out there to sexually harass her so that HE could look like a good guy saving her when he IS NOT. He wanted to keep her from seeing her friends..she litterally stated multiple times that he scares her.And again he kidnapped her like stop defending him and stop blaming her I don't care what his home life may have been like it will never justify what he did to her he needs help.