mmm, try this one: http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/my_little_inferno/
check out Not A Sugar Daddy
he's not traumatized but the uke is clearly raped and the seme (his bf who didn't rape him) helps him understand it's not his fault
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kiraide_isasete/ - the omega uke was raped, gave him trauma and a fear of alphas
Also here's a list of consensual smut you might like too
http://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/658536/
yeah i think what they're thinking of is when people try to romanticize rape and ignore the trauma of rape. rape role plays are okay because they're consensual, but actually witnessing someone (fiction or not) be raped and pass it off as okay because "it's cute" is something totally different.
but yeah rape kinks are generally different from what people think. it's more-so the emotions that derive from the rape --> people get turned on by their partner crying, they like the idea of [controlled/consensual] monopolization (etc.)
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/gintama_dj_mienai_kusari/
oml this one is what came into my mind first~
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/new_york_new_york/
he ended up being so traumatized that he was no longer able to do penetrative sex with his boyfriend (his boyfriend wasn't the one who raped him).
Does anyone know a good BL where the rape is actually treated seriously? Like the uke actually being traumatized afterwards and stuff? I don't care if they end up together or not, but if they do it shouldn't be like nothing happened or it's suddenly ok because they fell in love or whatever. I'm a sucker for characters suffering, but seriously and mentally u know?? Also, I prefer the Mangas not to be Omegaverse. Can anyone help out? Similar BLs with trauma and suffering are also welcome