It's just frustrating because... (And correct me if I'm wrong) what the hell are two peopl...

Kurou August 27, 2020 5:35 am

It's just frustrating because... (And correct me if I'm wrong) what the hell are two people dating for if they don't share their feelings?!?? I mean that's the point of dating someone, right?!?? Or am I wrong? Have I been dating wrong my whole life?!???
If you don't trust your partner with your feelings (insecurity, fears, happiness, future plans, etc.) It's only a fling, a sex partner and NOT a serious commited relationship that is doomed to end sooner than later.

The point of dating someone is the (emotional) support, not just the physical presence. I think that's why so many people find annoying this uke/manga.

Keeping this couple together, as to how the characters are, feels forced, because we know that this kind of relationship is not going to last long... Unless there's some really important self growth and personal development, but that takes time, so it would be more realistic to show said growth with their next partners... But this is a manga so... They'll live happily ever after ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍

Responses
    Rosa September 2, 2020 11:19 pm

    I think I'm gonna have to strongly disagree here lol.
    Just because you don't share your feelings with someone doesn't mean it's a fling and you don't love them (That's what I got from what you said, correct me if I'm wrong)
    You can be in a relationship and not share your feelings right away
    It takes time
    Like if you go on a blind date, you're meeting up with a stranger, why the hell would you want to tell this person about your life? So you continue to see them and just have conversations and meet ups until you feel comfortable enough to share your feelings
    If you don't trust your partner it also isn't a fling, you could just be insecure, I've seen it before, but as time passes by eventually you'll learn to rely and trust your partner, but just because you don't trust them and you're dating them does not mean it's a fling.
    I'd say people found the manga annoying because of the way the seme treated sexual harassment and how the uke was basically so quiet at points
    I also don't believe that the point of dating isn't only for emotional and physical support because I can get both those things for friends, when you date someone I believe you do it because you're interested in them romantically and would love to know more about them, you enjoy spending time with them romantically

    Kurou September 3, 2020 3:12 am
    I think I'm gonna have to strongly disagree here lol.Just because you don't share your feelings with someone doesn't mean it's a fling and you don't love them (That's what I got from what you said, correct me i... Rosa

    Uhmm...I get your point and I agree, I mean, I can't disagree, more accurately... I guess it's just my way of dating then... I'm the type of person that first gets to know very well the person, then opens up and THEN start dating. I can't date if I don't make sure the other person is aware of my feelings and I'm sure of theirs.
    I don't believe in the "let's start dating and then we'll see what comes out then" to me that's playing around, more like a gamble.

    Thank you for your pov, just reminded me that there's a lot of ways to date. Still... My first comment is what bothered me about this manga -o-

    LemonPyong October 14, 2020 4:40 pm
    I think I'm gonna have to strongly disagree here lol.Just because you don't share your feelings with someone doesn't mean it's a fling and you don't love them (That's what I got from what you said, correct me i... Rosa

    What’s more frustrating here is the Uke’s half-baked decisions. First of all, who the hell misses the birthday of their LOVER just to accompany someone who ISN’T EVEN THEIR FRIEND and has continuously HARASSED them at work?

    Communication doesn’t just develop in a day, that’s true, but if you only date someone because you are attracted to them romantically and have no future plans whatsoever, then I’d say that’s just a fling, or rather unstable, or even close to being toxic.

    Also, if this is the definition of REALISTIC RELATIONSHIPS then count me out.

    I’ve had gay friends who are very open to their partners.

    Love is NOT COMPLICATED, what’s complicated are RELATIONSHIPS, relationships that has no proper communication.

    Rosa October 14, 2020 5:17 pm
    What’s more frustrating here is the Uke’s half-baked decisions. First of all, who the hell misses the birthday of their LOVER just to accompany someone who ISN’T EVEN THEIR FRIEND and has continuously HAR... LemonPyong

    My explanation wasn't referring to the story at all
    The person had talked about relationships so that's where my explanation came in
    Since the manga is fiction idk how to explain their relationship and idk what the author was doing or what they were going for
    But I explained relationship from experience
    I honestly don't even remember what this manga is about

    Kurou October 14, 2020 11:31 pm
    My explanation wasn't referring to the story at allThe person had talked about relationships so that's where my explanation came inSince the manga is fiction idk how to explain their relationship and idk what t... Rosa

    I was just comparing the situations in this manga to my personal experiences orz

    Rosa October 15, 2020 12:25 am
    I was just comparing the situations in this manga to my personal experiences orz Kurou

    Oo