Grieving is not for the dead, they know nothing. It's for the living. It gets embedded in your soul and it takes time to heal.
you know the definition of grief right?
My definition...is my opinion. I'm sure there are others.
i clearly never said or asked anything about your opinion. i asked if you knew what the definition of grief was, you clearly don’t sweetie cause grief is agony caused by someone’s death so it’s “used” for the dead, not the living.
You misunderstood...Only the living experiences grief... not the dead. The dead experience nothing. Let's let this go, sweetie...I 'm not up for lectures today :))
some of y’all needa know that mafuyu is still grieving. he will NOT be over his childhood bestfriend/lover in one-two years, i honestly forgot how long it’s been. mafuyu loved yuki & yuki will always have an impact to him. NOW he loves ue & has expressed it. yuki has a HUGE presence in everyone’s life, of course he’ll STILL be present in everyone’s life even after death. i don’t think it’s fair of y’all to be so insensitive about the fact that yuki himself & his death had a huge impact on mafuyu, but i can see where yall are coming from when you say “ue deserves better”, i do wish mafuyu would open up with him, but you can’t expect that when mafuyu copes differently with things & with the amount of trauma he has, i can see why he would hesitate to love so openly. some of y’all have clearly not been in a toxic relationship before, this “toxic” relationship y’all say mafuyu & yuki had is NOT toxic. they saved each other, of course they are going to depend on each other A LOT. the amount of love you have for a person really changes everything, when you love someone so much, you’re going to demand on them. at times, you can feel like you’ll do anything for them as well, love really does something to you. stop being so insensitive, put yourselves in mafuyu’s shoes like honestly what would you think or do if you told the person you loved “would you die for me then” & they actually did it. you would be haunt by those words & you would feel guilt to the max. ANYWAYS now that im done rampaging, i respect your opinion & everything, HAVE A GOOD DAY.