There whole relationship was up and down, due to fact they had never met before then. Hyesung was kinda a bad mom at the start, but he had no experience at all, nor did he want a child. Hes like a teen mom but his parents aren’t there so he has to stick with a guy who knows as much as him. The sad part is that, if the baby wasn’t at risk, he would probably be doing self harm to deal with the stress of all this
THIS IS SO TRUE I WAS WAITING FOR SOMEONE TO SAY THIS(╯°Д °)╯╧╧
I'M SO GLAD SOMEBODY AGREES WITH ME. So many things got messed up in their relationship but I just can't hate them you know? They're both to blame but at the same time neither of them are to blame.
Ikr, I can't hate either of them. ╮(￣▽￣)╭
I see ppl insulting and angelifying hyesung but I can't really sit at either side. Hear me out.
For Hyesung: At the start hye-sung has always had a difficult(ish) personality but he wasn't like complete rude or nasty. The best way I'd classify it is kind of immature or childish mixed with naievety? Knowing his backstory, it makes sense why he's like that
Against ( I guess?): For those saying dojin abused or raped hyesung are completely off. Firstly hyesung got pregnant from their first sex encounter. Not when he used his pheromones. I don't think dojin is perfect or that either of them are exactly ready to be parents but he has never once been abusive or coercive. He's done his best to be a good partner and I think he's done well. All he does is try to make him happy so please don't make him out to be an abuser
For hyesung: I'm not a parent so I really can't seriously comprehend his situation. When he heard dojin say "What can he do, he's just an omega" I can completely understand the trigger/fear response he felt due to his father's abuse and mother's suffering. Plus he isn't a monster for slightly raising his voice at byul come on. He loves his son and you can see it in everything he does. So don't u dare try and say my hyesung is a bad mother. He's just figuring it out, LIKE WE ALL WOULD HAVE TO.
Against hyesung: I love hyesung and dojin a lot but the one thing that kind of grated at my heart for a while ( and still does a little) is just their relationship as a whole. It's so sad that even while they were married dojin still had doubts about whether hyesung even liked him. I can't imagine how that feels. I know he is hard spoken and young but is it still okay to hurt someone who loves you because of it? Even if he didn't I feel like that's something you need to be clear about. I'm the type of person who needs reassurance so maybe other people think differently. But as someone with severe anxiety and self hatred let me just say that this story is like a PERFECT description of dating/marrying someone with anxiety.
Plus,I would give up my life for byul. Tell me what yall think? Maybe I've just grown bitter or something over time.