Recognized my double standards

moody_bish August 12, 2020 1:39 am

If the hs kid looked like the typical shota or kid drawing, i was sure I'd be with the other teachers. I realized that my bias was that he "looked" mature. Just like any other yaoi who drew hs like fcking adults.

Ive began to think more about the line between child-adult (bcoz this was made into a conflict in the story). I ended with the conclusion that once the "child" is aware of the consequences and can take responsibility for their choices (not the impulsive, passionate, and irrational defiance) then I can say that they're not a child. But hey, this applies for 16yr olds. Below that and I'll still call u a child. Mature thinking kids can't handle themselves yet, it's basically just brain power.

And as they say, if you can rely on yourself and be able to take responsibility and be accountable of yourself, that's like the actual adult adult, not like me who is not a minor but make dumb choices lmao, basically childish HAHAHA.

So yeah, in some ways, the younger seme is growing up into an "adult" who can handle relationships.

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