i 100% agree!! i would diet and excerise for like two weeks and results would be really good, but when my motivation goes down, my diet turns into crap ahahha. i'm lucky that i'm quite fond of sport even though i eat a lot, bc if not for that; i could be in a really unhealthy state ┗( T﹏T )┛
Gotta agree with yo we are the master of our own life.and we can't get things done if we keep complaining. No matter what shape we are in as long as we are happy and don't have any sickness we should enjoy life. And yes exercising religiously and watching what you eat could lose weight. But i am one of those easily tempeted with foods. Good thing i don't mind my size hahaa
Ugh i know this manwha is about self love and body positivity, but the mc mentality toward skinny ppl (how they are naturally born skinny) is wrong. I was chubby ever since i was younger, felt ashamed, then went on diets (many lol) and successfully lost weight. looking back, i would only eat meat and high cal food whenever i could ( my mom tried to stop me but she couldnt, and i was only like 10 back then). So of course that make me realize theres no such thing as naturally born skinny or fat ( i understand there are a few exceptions of people with crazy high metabolism but those cases are so rare). Hear me out, i have alot of “skinny” friends, and i used to think why are they skinny (and they eat alot of junks) and I’m not, even thought i dieted so much. Well, after spending so much time with them ( we usually went out for foods) they actually barely eat anything... they took a few bites of their foods, either stop when theyre full or got distracted and stop eating. While i on the other hand just couldnt control myself. Also, they do sports and move alot while i dont lol. Its all come down to self discipline and balance. The mc feels like its unfair that she’s fat while her friends are not like lol. Well, when her friends order those high cal drinks, they took a few sips, then she ended up drinking (alot I assume) some of it too. Also, she skipped breakfast bc she’s dieting but then binge more the next meal (I’m guilty for this lol). Eating ramen at night, minimal movement/exercise, etc. this manwha literally gives so many examples of why some people just cant lose weight. I kn this is fictional so I’m just being WAYY too serious, but bc i have personal experience with this, i just want to say this loud and clear: EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. I’m not shaming anyone (include the mc) for behaving this way. But its not others fault that you happen to be a certain way, when in reality you have the power to change it. I mean look at the mcs dancer friend. She lost weight because she exercised (dance) and calories deficiency (not eating). It didnt happen to her like a miracle, she works HARD for it. Instead of complaining, the mc should either make her wish come true, or stay at her weight and love her self. I do believe people can be at any weight (as long as they are not obese or anorexic) and still be beautiful and love themselves. But if you dont love your self, then work hard to become the best version of yourself so that you can. This manwha is prob about that going against society standard bs, but everybody has a body preference, and if you want to be THAT person, then become that person. Dont sit around and complain. Make it happen! Weight loss wont make you become happier or more confident or you would love your self more (mc dancer friend example), but it is a form self love. Why? “Because today i decide to eat better, to move more, to live better, etc” all of these things that helps you lose weight can be beneficial for you, and choosing to become a better version of your self is self love. The same way people put on makeup or pretty clothes or get plastic surgery . Those things wont make you pretty, but the mentality to choose to improve yourself is what bring your confidence, which makes you beautiful. Dont blame society standard, dont blame others, know that you are responsible for the way you think and look (sound harsh but its true, you can change even if its hard).So if youre reading to this point, you dont need all of this to be beautiful, but if doing them will make you confident, then do it. Mc attitude is just terrible, but i was once like her so i cant help but feeling disgusted (lol just cuz of how wrongly this mindset is). Regardless, if youre like the mc now, then you better stop reading this and get to action NOW. Thank you for reading this lol and good luck my friend ;)