First of all thank you so much for respecting others interests, some of us just thinks differently and likes different things. I don't like bottom getting raped and then falling in love either but nearly every yaoi is like that so... Also I am never okay with rape in real life or in normalizing it but when it's fiction my brain just doesn't think it's bad. Hope it makes sense. (●'◡'●)
Yea i agree but i think not all people can differentiate reality from yaoi. Also, i understand that some people get off to this because of maybe traumas or other things. So i did have to correct myself on that. Other than that, it's still horrible to see it normalized in any manner. Its normalized in yaoi which is what i don't agree with. Why do they have to put a character in that situation, for the storyline?! I just wish the rape in yaoi and bl would not be normalized because personally, i think they can make the story interesting without it. Also, there's literally no reason to put rape into normal yaoi. I get it if the story has a rape-like stigma which I think brings awareness to people who are in positions like that. Other stories such as painter of the night, BJ Alex, yours to claim, love is an illusion and etc. Anyways i hope this clarifies more of what I meant in my comment. Also i do sorta agree with your comment back but i explained alot of things lol
I get your point and you're right, I just wanted to say some people can differentiate reality from yaoi and personally I don't find it "attractive" but it's more like I'm getting all the frustiation off myself i guess??? And like you said some people can't differentiate and they can see it as normal. I'm totally against it being normalized or being seen as normal in real life and in yaoi. But when it's a hentai my brain doesn't really think something it just goes "it's hentai=like porn=material to get off" like my mind is so simple ┗( T﹏T )┛I'm not trying to argue or add something on what you said or anything cause you're totally right just clearing things up
First off I hate rape in yaoi or bl so it wasn't for me, even if you think raped at first then they fall in love....no, not for me. I know this is hentai but still, people have a weird taste if they get off to this, I hate seeing people in levis position even if its fake.