and you think he was not having any anxiety to he had a good reason to not talk to him he had finals and the uke new he was uncomfortable with him being with the other guy alone. he also said he did like how jealous he was acting so he stayed away and was tring to work on himself. which is good he new his limit and cut it off before getting more hurt. the uke is at fault he should have told the other guy to back of after taking that king of photo he should not have met up with him either wen his boyfriend literally said he did like or trust the other guy. so its good that he ended it if the uke is that dumb i would not want to be with him either.
True true
No
That’s not the case
What the top did was fucked up, it’s fine if he wanted time to think to himself and consider his studies but he also realizes that the uke is caught up in suspense
He should’ve openly told the uke everything as soon as it happened
Instead he put the poor boy through hell and possibly put his grades in jeopardy
They’re in a rushed relationship and so clearly don’t understand one another because they don’t know each other intimately yet
I get that the seme is insecure but he has no right to stop his boyfriend from being friends with anyone
That’s not a healthy relationship
He’s suspicious of the poor uke, who honestly hasn’t done anything he’s just very sociable
The uke can talk to anyone he wants, so what if he had a crazy night with a FRIEND. Until further proof that uke did nothing with that friend.
Overall that seme is an insecure gaslighting manipulative piece of shit who can’t be faithful to his partner
That uke is a carefree person not a slut, he’s not a cheater
He literally has eyes for that garbage
I meant to dislike your post and now you know
Lay it down queen
he wanted space to sort his thoughts because he didn't want to blow up on jiho that perfectly valid. jiho should've taken the time to reflect which by the recent chapter shows he did none of. he was squirming in anxiety for a week okay and ?
He's not stopping his bf from being friends with anyone he just said he was sorting his feelings out because he felt threatened by the teacher when he knew he shouldn't have THAT'S LITERALLY ALL HE SAID he even apologized for taking so long to think about it.
tell me if your significant other whom you've dated for over a week or month comes up to you and says they woke up in their panties in someone else's floor with no recollection will you go "np" or will you ask again like why is some people acting like eunchae's jealousy is unstemmed and coming out of nowhere. they were clearly headed with a full blown fight before eunchae de esclated it by saying hes mad rn so please leave before they fight.
I'm sorry I've had wild nights with friends but not to the point where i was questioning myself whether i had cheated on my bf
the internet learnt the word gaslight and just ran with it where DID HE GASLIGHT IF ANYBODY IT WAS THAT HYUNMIN WHO GASLIGHTED JIHO.
the fact that that fool jiho thought it was a bright idea to meet up with hyunmin instead of chasing after eunchae to talk it out ON THE SAME DAY HE TOLD HIM HIS FEELINGS ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED?????
the way i know for a fact if the "seme" did what jiho did yall would be screaming about him being a cheater and that the "uke" deseves better and that one week of "anxiety" was deserved and whatnot.
Yes they should break up unless jiho can learn how to communicate better or mature up. Eunchae deserves someone who will as jiho said " meet him in the middle"
Well first I take the gaslighting back cause if the seme did then he did it to himself
I call them seme and uke cause I just don’t remember the names
They both in the wrong but the seme really could have just talked it out and meet each other in the middle
They better off not together
He’s still a piece of shit for being upset with the uke after not disclosing his feelings on the matter with clarity
There are times when you drink and do stupid shit with your friends, that’s exactly how things ended up for the the uke
Even though he himself isn’t sure, he was honest, trusting, and open enough to tell the seme about it like a partner should (he even apologized with the ambiguity surrounding the whole event)
It could be infuriating but you have to be glad that he even told him
The friend tho is fucked up, especially for not relaying the events of that night
Why would you expect for the uke to run to the fucking whiny ass seme who can’t even text back for confirmation on what happened
He didn’t fucking say anything relevant to how much it was bothering himself nor a means of a solution
The uke went to the friend to figure out what happened that night and was honestly looking to seek help from them as a friend to try and get the seme to have a discussion with him
That seme can’t open up for shit and now he went and ended things (which is for the best) because he’s insecure
They both at fault but the seme is the one who wasn’t up front, so the relationships main issue stem from him cause he just found out that his ex was mad popular therefore he doubted himself and mistrusted the uke, all this with no real discussion on these issues
Don’t know why you would try and stick up for someone (even if he’s a character) who clearly didn’t try to solve any issues that they themselves created
the last line is literally about the uke. you do understand the seme himself did not understand why he felt that way and that he didn't like the fact that he was blaming the uke hence why he had to sort out his feeling properly and that takes time. the seme was so upfront he didn't say he was okay with it then be snarky with his words he said hes mad give him space then after that he said hes forgiven him and explained why he had to take space in the first place. the seme cant open up for shit ?? OPEN UP WHAT what more could he say ????? after he realised how he felt he told the uke after the uke broke his trust he told the uke he even explained his reasons for the breakup ??? im wondering what you're reading to come to all these extra conclusions. to try and figure out what happened that night ? no they already found out it was just the secret about the bf thing being out. the uke wanted to vent and complain to the teacher and its perfectly valid but i guess its just another example of how he has a middle schoolers brain fuction because he didn't go to the seme to explain shit instead choose to meetup with the same teacher on the same day that the incident went down then ONLY did it click in his pea brain that maybe he should've talked with the seme *cue him running to his house in the middle of the night lmao*
i have to be glad he even told the seme? that's what a decent character would do nobody should get props for that. there are times you can do stupid shit and yes you are good for owning up to it but that doesn't mean there wont be any consequences for those actions, in this case its trust that was broken, the first time was a mistake but the second time when he was perfectly sober to make that decision?
" who clearly didnt try to solve the issues they themselves created" ?? go kill hyunmin? lock up jiho ?? blackmail him?? are these the solutions you want because de escalating a situation thats getting out of hand to properly analyse your feelings then talk about it with your partner is imo a pretty good solution that he took, jiho went through anxiety for a week if he truly didn't do anything wrong with how impulsive this guy is (see the beginning) he would've went straight down to eunchae and cried a river saying hes cruel but he gave him space to think as well because he knew this could quite possibly be a deal breaker
god damn I'm defending just like how you want to defends the ukes right to go mess up and get away unscathed while eunchae needs to have computer leveling emotional processing skills and just stand there and smile for jiho
i guess you and me were reading something totally different then everybody else because we came up with the same conclusion. it actually scares me how many people or siding with the uke
Wtf is wrong with you
Who asked for those solutions, if you can even call them that
You’re into some extreme shit bruh
A solution could have been a sit down with all three of them, if it lead to a possible fight then that’s what would have happened. From there the uke would’ve probably thought it would be best not to stay in contact with that friend or he could have still stayed in contact, this shit is whatever
The seme just a whole bitch
This whole relationship is a dub, I’m not gunna say it again
You defending somebody that should’ve known what type of person they were dating but ended up being insecure of themselves and suspecting their partner
I do commend the uke for coming forth about his night with that friend and even if they came to an apology of sorts the uke has every right to go meet up with that friend
If you haven’t noticed the uke has a carefree kinda dumb blonde personality, but he is open to development
Just like how he wanted to be open about their relationship, he realized why the seme wanted to keep it a secret in the first place. All the seme has to do was tell them how society is but he didn’t like always, say something with no explanation
If he explains something, it’s always weak
The seme has shown growth, just backwards
Last time ima say this
The uke clearly feels guilt and shows his feelings appropriately, he’s willing all the time to talk things out
He is oblivious otherwise
The seme just told him what he felt but didn’t explain well enough to be called a true opening up
He has every right to get mad but he could have told the uke during their break that hey I need more time instead of leaving it on read
That shit fucking sucks especially when it’s someone you love and during a finals
He just basically set him up for failure
That whole mess created tension and it would be hard to focus on anything else with this worry over ones head about how their upset significant other
He didn’t even give that sincere of an apology to the uke for leaving him in that tension with the bullshit excuse of wanting for them both to focus on their finals
Lastly, Without any room for discussion, he didn’t care to listen to why the uke, same day, was with that friend again and just jumped to his own conclusions
So let him stay with his conclusions
Their relationship was setup for failure but I will stand by the uke as most would in the comments
Man I don’t even remember it like that
All I care to know is how much emotional pain the seme brought to the uke regardless if you can see it
That seme’s just rolling in his own self deprecation while making the uke feel self doubt (possibly making him mistrust others in the future because he would now forever question himself)
The seme ain’t shit without the uke
you do realize that the seme to a step back because he didn't like that he was acting so jealous and he even explain and apologized and asked if the uke could meet him halfway. and that photo just put him over the edge so he went home to cool of instead of blowing up at the uke. but the uke instead of going after him or going to him the next day he went to the other guy and even put him on the phone. if you are a adult you should know wen to step back and the seme did. the uke is really amateur he didn't even try to see where the seme is coming from. the seme is going to forgive him or apologize for being made which he had every right to be made about there probably gong to get back together in a few ep. and the uke probably will not get made at the other guy or stop seeing him
and if it was the other way around and the seme was meeting a girl you would heat on him so much
Ya damn ryt
They did know what type of person they were dating AN IRRESPONSIBLE DRUNK!! hence why he got so insecure when the drunk night out was confessed!!!
Why would you want to listen to what the uke had to say ONE THE SAME FUCKING DAY his actions spoke out everything what more could he say " Hey yea I know I was caught in an incriminating position with this man and I know you just told me you felt jealous of him but yea haha right after that I went to meet him in the middle of the night yea haha how crazy is that ily "????
Lmao that was a sincere apology he explained his reasons then said he was sorry I'm sorry he should've bought a 100 roses and kneeled with a banner that said " I'm so sorry I was mad at you for saying you'll go home and study then ot drunk at landed up in some man's home with in underpants I love you "???
I’m actually kind of happy he ended it because the Uke it’s so stupid and honestly it’s probably not mature enough to even be dating anybody