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Peerless cucumber August 4, 2020 7:04 pm

Sorry idk how to share link. What do you think about "The Girl & the Super Gay Boner" it's about a gay man who suddenly starts liking a woman. He still keeps identifying himself as a gay . Shouldn't he be bisexual??
*I hope I didn't say anything to offend anyone*

 

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    Elisabeth August 4, 2020 7:13 pm

    Imao i read it as well.. or have it on my reading list currently.. I don't remember, all I remember is that it was a trashy shoujo.

    Yeah, he should, but I guess it is that kind of common trope that people like what you can't usually have.
    Often in yaoi the seme is always like that as well "I like you, but I don't like guys only women.
    YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE" when he should be gay or bi.

    Icetear August 4, 2020 7:58 pm
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    I think the problem is that we still think in overly strict categories when it comes to sexuality and that's where a lot of common tropes, misunderstandings and sometimes just painfully irritating ideas come from.
    The 'borders' between sexual and romantic preferences are fluent and can, of course, change over time.
    The same with gender-identity (speaking of, scientifically there are over 3000 genders simply based on the different shapes of the sex-defining 'X'- or 'Y'-Chromosome...).
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