So I have a problem. . .

RoseyDove27 July 31, 2020 6:27 pm

I have a younger brother and we're constantly fighting. We're never on good terms and when we are, it doesn't last long. He had found out about a year ago that I like BL and I read it/watch it. Well, he is the type to snitch, but he doesn't because I had something even more incriminating about him. Well, now that that trump card is gone, I know he's going to spill it at some point. Just as an FYI, my parents are huge homophobes and wouldn't even tolerate me talking about lgbtq people in my house. So if this is found out, I'm fucking doomed. My brother doesn't know how to keep his mouth shut either, so when he's mad, he mutters things under breath like "at least I don't read about boys kissing" or something like that and it seriously pisses me off. The only good thing I have going for me is the fact that my parents don't like to interfere with my brother and they don't like to snoop into what we're usually fighting about. They just don't care, and they know that me and my brother fight a lot so they've learned to ignore it. But I feel like soon enough, they'll hear my brother while he's saying one of his comments and be onto me. We've lately been in a huge fight and I think he's going to let it out soon. I don't know what to do to stop this before I'm found out.

Offer me your advice fellow fujodanshis

Responses
    TeddyBear July 31, 2020 6:34 pm

    Find more dirt about him. Find something that would shaken him too. Let the game be played fair and square. Or maybe compromise things with him. Find peace with him. I used to fight with my brother too. But I've learned to ignore him. No I completely make him feel like he doesn't exist in my circle. So that's how I stop fighting.

    cripes July 31, 2020 6:34 pm

    Get dirt on him or bribe him

    RoseyDove27 July 31, 2020 6:40 pm
    Find more dirt about him. Find something that would shaken him too. Let the game be played fair and square. Or maybe compromise things with him. Find peace with him. I used to fight with my brother too. But I'v... TeddyBear

    thank you for your advice! I think I'm gonna go with ignoring him and making him believe he doesn't exist in my circle as well. I've kinda given up on peace and compromising because we fight either way;; so i'm gonna go with blocking him out.

    RoseyDove27 July 31, 2020 6:40 pm
    Get dirt on him or bribe him cripes

    I've tried dirt, but its not that strong compared to what he has on me :(

    Shiloh knight July 31, 2020 6:49 pm

    Make up dirt on him.... Like when he tells your parents something ..u tell something to them which be hasn't done..so obviously he'll deny and say you're lying
    And then u say that then u are also lying that i read about kissing boys ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    Shiloh knight July 31, 2020 6:49 pm
    Make up dirt on him.... Like when he tells your parents something ..u tell something to them which be hasn't done..so obviously he'll deny and say you're lyingAnd then u say that then u are also lying that i re... Shiloh knight

    *he

    RoseyDove27 July 31, 2020 6:51 pm
    Make up dirt on him.... Like when he tells your parents something ..u tell something to them which be hasn't done..so obviously he'll deny and say you're lyingAnd then u say that then u are also lying that i re... Shiloh knight

    lmfaoo good advice

    in_jail_out_soon July 31, 2020 6:52 pm
    thank you for your advice! I think I'm gonna go with ignoring him and making him believe he doesn't exist in my circle as well. I've kinda given up on peace and compromising because we fight either way;; so i'm... RoseyDove27

    I have an irritating, manipulative, liar brother who is so selfish and each time my parents either ignore our fights or we both get scolded (mainly me). The best solution is try to ignore him and don't poke into his business AT ALL. At the same time be very secretive abt yours. Do not let him think he has all the power. Collect more blackmail Material if you can and make work with the own that you have. The key is to not let him see that he is getting under your skin.

    RoseyDove27 July 31, 2020 6:55 pm
    This reply will be showed after approved! The Quiet Kid

    woah there. we're not trying to end up in juvie just yet

    RoseyDove27 July 31, 2020 6:55 pm
    woah there. we're not trying to end up in juvie just yet RoseyDove27

    just read your username

    Yui-chan July 31, 2020 6:56 pm

    from how you described your brother he seems a stubborn person who does not change his mind easily, but I would sincerely talk to him face to face trying to make him understand his childish behavior ... ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    やな❤ July 31, 2020 7:00 pm

    Tell ur parent that u saw ur brother watching gay porno lol

    Yui-chan July 31, 2020 7:03 pm
    Tell ur parent that u saw ur brother watching gay porno lol やな❤

    I think something like that upset them a lot !!!( ̄∇ ̄")

    Shiloh knight July 31, 2020 7:06 pm
    Tell ur parent that u saw ur brother watching gay porno lol やな❤

    Weirdo July 31, 2020 7:09 pm

    I told my Brother I read yAOi n he was cool w it n he recently came out to me as bi so he prolly was fine w it from the start lol
    Tho I wish I nvr saw his uncleared history for gay porn

    ms.yuki July 31, 2020 7:10 pm

    I am in the same situation back then.. My parents are religeous that's why they are uptight about me being fujoshi and when they learn that I read BL they lashed out on me but I stood my ground and tell them that it is my hobby.... As for my brother which also annoy me, i remember that my fist is better that my mouth that's why there is one time we got into huge physical fight and i didnt stop not until i see his bloody nose though i also suffered one hehe!!

    Hey._.itzme July 31, 2020 7:10 pm

    Make a deal or threaten him with something. I hope you luck tho, I would be hella scared.

    RoseyDove27 July 31, 2020 7:22 pm
    I have an irritating, manipulative, liar brother who is so selfish and each time my parents either ignore our fights or we both get scolded (mainly me). The best solution is try to ignore him and don't poke int... in_jail_out_soon

    thank you sm for the advice! its gonna be a little bit of a challenge for me since I'm impulsive by nature, but that doesn't mean I'm gonna back down. I'll try my best so that my secret isn't out.

    Yui-chan July 31, 2020 7:22 pm
    I am in the same situation back then.. My parents are religeous that's why they are uptight about me being fujoshi and when they learn that I read BL they lashed out on me but I stood my ground and tell them th... ms.yuki

    fujoshi 1 silly brother 0 ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    RoseyDove27 July 31, 2020 7:23 pm
    Tell ur parent that u saw ur brother watching gay porno lol やな❤