focusing on sleeping in the same bed, i dont think that its the big proclamation of love that we've culturised it to be.
if i shared a place with a partner, id want to sleep in separate beds. when i go to bed, i stay up reading manga and rolling around as i wind down. when im asleep, i dribble, kick, roll, and wake up a lot in the middle of the night. i wouldnt want to trouble my partner with these disturbances, especially considering how important sleep is.
with separate beds we can sleep together when we want to, and have personal space when we want to.
focusing on sleeping in the same bed, i dont think that its the big proclamation of love that we've culturised it to be.
if i shared a place with a partner, id want to sleep in separate beds. when i go to bed, i stay up reading manga and rolling around as i wind down. when im asleep, i dribble, kick, roll, and wake up a lot in the middle of the night. i wouldnt want to trouble my partner with these disturbances, especially considering how important sleep is.
with separate beds we can sleep together when we want to, and have personal space when we want to.