There was this one manga but I forgot what it was called. The partner, the one inserting, he’s very attentive. I’m sure there are many mangas out like that, BJ Alexx has some form of it. You just honestly have to keep searching. I’ll get back to this comment if I can find it.
Awesome. Thanks. I'm just tired of it. I know it's just fiction but to have that be a ongoing theme in so many yaoi it's bringing the question of "does anyone in the mangas and novels know what consent is?" I'm sure there are some without but it's a bit concerning that what I'm pretty sure is a majority of yaoi mangas, especially the more popular mangas, the uke is always objectified in some way or their wishes are ignored in favor of an over confident seme. Don't let me get started on the threesome ones where both potential semes treat the uke like a toy with absolutely no choice.
I thought I was going to love this but lately I just haven't been able to read yaoi where partners are inattentive and ignore what their partners are saying during sex. First time they have sex, the one bottoming became anxious but instead of stopping, the other one just decided to continue going. Why does this always seem to happen in yaoi. Even in the ones I like, I've noticed that yaoi ranges from dubious consent to the acceptance of rape without addressing that it's not right. Any recommendations on good yaoi where the partner is actually not selfish and ready to just penetrate without consideration? Where a panicked "wait" isn't answered with immediate penetration out of in consideration?