IKr. Like holy shit, if the other party doesnt have anyone in their mind, like sure, GO GIRL. GET THE MAN but HES FCKING MARRIED. THE SIGNS ARE THERE. HE LIKES HIS WIFE , CHILL.
i was in her position once. without knowing a guy flirted with me and i responded, we became ambigious...like not friend, not dating...thought it was developing though...so one day he shows up with his new girlfriend....and in that exact moment, i looked normal and conversed, but i was doing a clean up inside my head and the budding feels in my heart with heavy bleach.....so while i was a lil hurting inside from the quick and harsh clean up and suffered from the rash treatment a bit afterwards, especially my ego.....i never once ever treated him any different than an acquaintance....even when i was drunk and he came to a party i was at and talked as though they were on the brink of separating....the only thing that happened was, that i allowed him to hug me as a friend (which i regret, but i was fucking drunk on half a liter of tequila).....it sounds like an excuse, but seriously....after i had a powernap, i woke up like someone threw water on me and realised what had happened....a guy hugged me that is still officially in a relationship....that is still a scar in my head....i feel like i did a horrible horrible thing and did a lot to repent towards the girl...we now are friends since 3 years.....so it turned out great...she even repremanded me for being so harsh on myself because of that (in germany it is kinda not super weird to cuddle with friends for some people, so yeah....i guess i just projected my tendency for being a little possessive onto her, but yeah....).....treat life like you want life to treat you...or you will only eat shit....sooner or later...the shit you shat that is....so she is fucking annoying me....who gives a damn about your feelings? they are your problem, no one elses....gosh
You really are too harsh on yourself
The important thing is that you get that it was wrong so its time to let go and forgive yourself
I hope you feel better
Honestly, the guy should take accountability too. He flirted with you while also courting his then girlfriend. Did he atleast apologize for leading u on?
Greenie is an MVP holy shit
Also “is it wrong to want the person i like to notice me” is absolute bullshit
Like bitch
He has a wHOLE ASS W I F E
im legit confused by her
she was cheated on before right??
but now she really wants to be a homewrecker huh