I think it's because of their dynamic. Ibelina is obviously still uncomfortable with being in a romantic relationship with Alejandro and Alejandro KNOWS this and they are also not in a relationship yet (no matter how much Alejandro wants them to be). Also, idk about you but if my friend who is -not- my boyfriend slaps my but or licks my hand when he's drunk, he's getting a slap in the face lol. Wth kind of parties you go to girl.
Lol I go to normal parties don't worry
But this again you think my sister is weird for letting him do so and the hand licking too but at the end it's a matter of perspective, how you and I view it.
Me i find it cool for various reasons but you no
What's wrong and good is so ambiguous and complicated and the boundaries sometimes between people can't be etablished by outer perspective, there is like major difference of comprehension.
Also yes she might be uncomfortable with Alejandro will to be in a relationship but she 's really indecisive, we were able to see sometimes that she isn't unaffected by him but she can't stop making escuses about how "she has to follow the story
I feel like Alejandro's "you don't like it?" was a kinda a way for him to know her feelings even if he's Drunk , it's like he's testing her see?
She wasn't clear on what she wanted and the fact that she was dense don't help either , when we see those kind of scene I think it push her to realize that Alejandro is a man that love her.
(Also Sorry for typoz I'm french )
I don't understand the note because basically nothing happed tho
Him asking to go inside was kinda pushy but he asked he did not force his way into her room, also he was drunk , drunk people do silly thing so what he did with the hand was not that shocking for me lol , I viewed it as something funny that he would recall and the morning and cringe lol
Plus There was not any r*pe or sexual harassment, I'm sure in the next chapter there will be some hugging and heartfelt stories about how he missed her.
Sometimes I ask myself what is the use of a scene in a lot a things and this one was for ibelina to see that Alejandro is a man and not a baby anymore.
Personal comment but I feel like people nowadays see so much bad things that they see dark in every things.
Also all relationship are not the same something you might consider innapropriate is not for other couple.
For example my sister boyfriend likes too touch her butt and slap it to laugh from time to time and she doesn't care,she lets him do so, so that is consent.
If people saw this they would thought "it's sexist" "this is misogyny" "to not romantize it" without knowing if it 's a problem for the people IN the relationship.
Anyway nice chap