For me I really want him to end up with the girl he loves her it's obvious but as he said ...

Please do not equate fondness for an individual to romantic love. Please and thank you.

For me it looks like she loves him that's why I said so

Uh how do I say this,,, Please do not forget relationships are built on *mutual* attraction. Mutual - meaning both parties have the same exact feelings for each other.

If anything it's a one sided love on her part, because what Jun holds for her is fondness for her, not sexual attraction for her.

I mean, yeah I get it people are sad for her because Jun doesn't reciprocate her same feelings, and it sucks for her because she can't get the ideal romantic partner of her dreams I guess. But that still doesn't excuse or make it right for her to continue fostering a romantic straight relationship with a known gay man that doesn't think of her that way.
I mean, that is literally, that how domestic abusers think.

Domestic abusers will force their partners to stay with them, even when the other wishes to move on or leave them. That's why a lot domestic abusers will use threats or violence to make their partners stay with them.

Which is why I find Miura to be such a problematic character, since she literally continues to force the narrative of how Jun can be saved if he gets into a relationship with her, and so that's why she isn't going to give up on him. When the literal subtext to it all, is that she doesn't think gay people exist irl. Therefore, she's "saving" Jun from being gay.

I understand your point of view thank you for your explanation

you're welcome! and thank you for being open and not taking offense because my perspective! (▰˘◡˘▰)

Fair argument. but I think what Jun feels for Miura is closer to familial love / friendship both of which lack sexual attraction. Which is why I said Jun does not feel romantic attraction to Miura to make it easier to understand for other people.

Because it's fairly easy to imagine people who are in romantic relationships tend to want to fuck each other. Whereas, you would never think to fuck your family members right? (Y'know because that would be incestuous) and the same applies to friends where you both just want to maintain platonic friendships with (because otherwise you'd be betraying their trust that they likewise want to maintain a platonic friendship with you).

So, I'm fine with Miura becoming Jun's friend, but anything more than is Miura overstepping her boundaries.