is being a bottom bad?

Youru cchi July 19, 2020 9:22 am

why alex doesnt wanna be a bottom? i mean it is so shamefull for top being a bottom? bottom or top those are fine.

Responses
    skeleton July 20, 2020 9:17 am
    Skeleton, my compliments to you, if all people who leave comment on the web were like you I'd still read topics like this (instead I was just unlucky and saw this without wanting it -.- sorry for the brocken en... Mel-chan

    amen

    skeleton July 20, 2020 9:31 am

    cry abt it. my point is dumbing down complex characters that don’t really have any stereotyping is lame, and that IRL people have strict preference when they’re a top. you’re not wrong on typical yaoi shit. however this isn’t exactly a typical yaoi, it’s a webtoon with genuine characters, decent writing, and it’s lacking cringe. you’re not incorrect, however i strongly believe that those stereotypes aren’t very relevant to this story in particular.

    Mel-chan July 20, 2020 9:50 am
    im sorry but, what is femboy? sorry i asked a lot, im still learning and i want to learn... Youru cchi

    Please, don't believe the comment of the user blue. Thery are just sad theories by sjw people who always, always try to make people feel bad for their fantasies and kinks. You are not bad or wrong if you like even the trashiest yaoi ever with all the warnings of the globe, until you know that reality and fantasy are different. You can love realistic characters and all the "sadistic" seme you want and the weakeast uke of the world, and that's totally okay : )

    Mel-chan July 20, 2020 9:53 am

    The only whing who have sense here is that I made a mess with the multiple messagge, I never use the comment thread of Mangago (this is really an exception) and so ended up like this. You are trying to persuade everyone (failing) that uke/seme are offensive for women (lol), that's all, even if you use the words that SJW, unhealty people use on the web as shield (in this case for example "heteronormative") you are wrong anyway about the fact that yaoi and seme/uke are "bad". You don't like it? Perfect, read something else. Don't bully or disturb people who appreciate it. They are just fantasies, and as any psycologist will tell you, fantasy are always okay, if one knows the difference between them and reality. That's all. If you are really angry or sad beacause a FICTIONAL chara hasn't the chance to "develop" outside of the kind of comic whose he is the main chara, it means something. Something not very good for your own mental sanity, and it's a not a offense, it's a fact. It's a pity if you take it as a personal attack, it's not :/ Probably you just need a bit or terapy, there's nothing bad in that! About Skeleton, tbh he agreed with my comment about him XD and if he doesn't like seme/uke relationship I don't think it's a problem, considering that he's not being delirious like you ^^'' They are just taste, for example I find the classic "warrior girl" of many movies, usually loved by many feminist (not all), very annoying and irrealistic, but I'd never disturb a topic of people who love that writing "omgggg it's so horrible". Plus, if you are tired of my message, well, I can assure you that I got tired of off topic messagges like your years ago XD

    Mel-chan July 20, 2020 9:58 am

    "so straight female readers can relate more to the dynamic which is so odd. "

    I make a new messagge just for this: you are really sexist and offensive. Like really, really much. People like you are the reason why nowadays an important movement like feminism is seen as ridicolous by most of people, even women. And the odd one is you, tbh, considering, that healty people know that it's normal having different tastes in fiction. You always ignore that part, but speaking with a professional doctor would help you a lot.

    ". A lot of yaoi, especially older ones has been criticised heavily for internal misogyny by authors"

    And that's so sad, considering that there is freedom of drawing and nobody can choose what is okay to fantasize about. Again: SPEAK. WITH. SOMEONE.

    Mel-chan July 20, 2020 10:18 am
    "so straight female readers can relate more to the dynamic which is so odd. "I make a new messagge just for this: you are really sexist and offensive. Like really, really much. People like you are the reason wh... Mel-chan

    Ah, and I forgot something: luckily who made that just have opinions, exactly like anyone else, and they aren't more important at all than the ones of the rest of the world : ) They are very sad, as I said, but thanks god thet can't stopping people from reading what they want ^^