please

Even so, it's a bit exaggerated. He's very much like a child. Though I guess he has been this entire time (like an anxious child that feels the other person can leave him at any time bc he's been waiting to be with him for a long time). Even if he was worried about the other guy coming onto his bf and there was nothing like the bully incident, it could have easily been that the other guy sat himself in front of his bf and the bf didn't rlly have a choice but talk to the guy for a bit. Numerous things could've led to that even without Hyun knowing everything. He should at least be willing to hear his bf out or else so much for trusting him. The bf could easily ignore the other party, but it isn't his fault if the other party keeps appearing too. Hyun should have the mind to hear him out even if they sat together that time and he knows nothing.

This is all rational talk tbh. i believe when a person gets disappointed, they need some time to just figure out their thoughts. I think they'll be okay once they talk and I'm sure he will give Youngjun the chance to do so, just after he rationalizes his own thoughts is all

this is what I mean by hearing him out. The only way to fix anything in the end is talking. That's why the bf isn't gonna let Hyun be even if Hyun insists he doesnt wanna see him. Hyun can be angry for being left out of the loop, but rn running away from the situation doesn't rlly help anyone. The bf is pretty much grasping at straws rn bc he left Hyun out of the loop, but at the same time, if Hyun wasn't left out of the loop, it could have still affected his gameplay more if he was worried about his bf getting involved in a bully incident and that's what the bf was worried about. It goes both ways but they still need to talk it out.

Uhm no? I'm an adult with a mental illness and I would without fail react like that
I wanted to be like that? No
I can perfectly understand both side but the problem is u cant rational with a person like that
I'm not trying to say that Hyun is mentally ill
But even fine people react like that
You need to understand that what the brain perceives is how the person would react
I can totally understand my lover with such reasonings but you can't stop an emotion from feeling like that
For example u told a person a problem u just wanted to be a secret
That person is in a rational side and can understand the severity of such situations
That person called the police, that person did what the best for that person but you can't stop that person from feeling betrayed even though he understood that person's reasoning

yh, all I'm saying is the situation from a neutral perspective. The reason Hyun is reacting like that is because he is still very anxious about their relationship to begin with and their agreement from the bf to not meet with the guy fell through. Yh obviously you can't just reason with a person who is that emotional, but at the same time that means there is simply room to grow up as adults between them. I just get queezy that Hyun gets upset to that extent bc honestly it's not healthy to draw one conclusion and consider it over from that at the moment. I personally just want them two to get to a place where they are more trusting with each other bc Hyun is still very insecure about their relationship. A lover would of course be mad that their lover hid the reality of a situation depending on what it is, which is the basis for 90% drama. *Hurray*<sarcasm. I myself find drama annoying which I guess is why I'm a pretty rational person, like, -COMMUNICATION PLZ. TELL HIM ABOUT THE BULLY- (Bf proceeded to not tell Hyun about the bully and here we are)

Okay guys calm down.

I think we all agree that communication is key in this relationship and both parties need to work on it, and I'm sure they will.