I can see where people are coming from when they say that the scene where they are drunk w...

Aki July 15, 2020 3:25 pm

I can see where people are coming from when they say that the scene where they are drunk would be seen as rape but to me it seems like a scene where you get drunk and have a hookup. And I don't really see it is unconstitutional. Maybe it's cause he doesn't know that it isn't real and thinks it's a dream but it seemed consenting to me

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    Octavia July 15, 2020 3:38 pm

    Yeah the uke isn't resisting or saying "no" or "stop" like in other mahwa stories.

    Bald Sangwoo July 15, 2020 3:40 pm

    You can't consent when intoxicated period, like he DEADASS thought it was a DREAM, he was that intoxicated. That scene was wrong on so many levels, for one the rape and for 2 the uke said many times it hurts and that he was going to be sick and what did the seme say? "Hold it" lol. We don't stan rapists

    kagzee July 15, 2020 9:34 pm

    no because yahwi wasn't drunk so you can't even excuse it like a "drunk hookup." when both parties are equally drunk that's when lines get blurry but in this situation jooin literally thought he was dreaming and yahwi took advantage of that. a lot of times people dont understand that pleasurable rape is still rape. just because the victim felt good (because we are biologically designed for sex to feel good) doesnt make what happened okay or consentual. it's this nonchalant attitude towards rape that isnt the clear cut "grrr angry aggressive man holding down a struggling frail woman" that helps so many rapists get away with it.

    Aki July 16, 2020 6:14 am
    no because yahwi wasn't drunk so you can't even excuse it like a "drunk hookup." when both parties are equally drunk that's when lines get blurry but in this situation jooin literally thought he was dreaming an... kagzee

    I can see know why this is rape sorry if you got offended by my comment I genuinely didn't get how this situation was rape because most yaoi that I have read the whole discussion about rape was very in the face with it. Again I'm sorry and thank you for explaining

    Aki July 16, 2020 6:15 am
    You can't consent when intoxicated period, like he DEADASS thought it was a DREAM, he was that intoxicated. That scene was wrong on so many levels, for one the rape and for 2 the uke said many times it hurts an... Bald Sangwoo

    I'm sorry if you got offended by this comment I genuinely didn't get how it could be considered rape but after reading and I went to do my research. Thank you for educating me and again sorry for the offense

    Bald Sangwoo July 16, 2020 6:22 am
    I'm sorry if you got offended by this comment I genuinely didn't get how it could be considered rape but after reading and I went to do my research. Thank you for educating me and again sorry for the offense Aki

    It's fine, atleast now you know and aknowledge your mistake

    kagzee July 17, 2020 5:50 pm
    I can see know why this is rape sorry if you got offended by my comment I genuinely didn't get how this situation was rape because most yaoi that I have read the whole discussion about rape was very in the face... Aki

    it's okay my dude. i didnt get offended but it's just important for people to know especially bc so much yaoi totally romanticizes rape which i hate