People needs to take time reading this. (▰˘◡˘▰)
I wonder if this has so many dislikes already because ppl thought that this is about Joowon only lol. Anyways, I really appreciate how you genuinely seem to like all characters!
You say that Haesoo just uses Taku as a shed from the rain, but (besides that being not 100% accurate), what's so wrong with that? Don't you think it's nice to find somebody who's able to comfort you and make you feel emotionally better ?
I find it questionable to positively say that H & J 'love each other so much that they hurt each other'. That's very unhealthy, should never happen and it should also never be romanticized. They made each other so miserable. And I wonder what you define as 'deep connection'. What is this 'deep connection' that you see between them? I only see habit and bad chemistry, but I'm rly curious to hear your answer.
"Im mad that he made Haesoo his life." That is very well said and I can only agree. *applauds*
OMG I so agree with you spot on but I'd like to say I really hate the mom and the dad too! Lol
They seem so intent on their own happiness they never even thought about how there kids were really feeling or doing.
I mean think about it if they really cared about what their kids were feeling and doing they would have been more involved. They would have asked them how they felt and why they felt the way they did. And together they all could have come up with a solution. But instead the dad pretends not to know and the mom shamed them and just said stop. No helping them or understanding them. It annoys me to know end.
yeah the parents are assholes, no need to bring that up xD I'd rather have you answer my questions
It’s just my perspective but I think the best growth is the growth where you worked on yourself. It may be better to some to find someone to confide to and that is fine if that’s how they cope. Just my thought (please dont hate) i think that it’s unhealthy for haesoo to feel better by depending on others. It confuses him and messes him up more. He needs love from himself first. And finding new love after a heart break is just selfish for the other person especially if you still have feelings left for the past. (Speaking from my friends and I’s experience)
I’m not saying i love and romanticize that they “love so much that they hurt each other” I’m just stating my opinion on why iy has become toxic between them. From what I see if they were to be in a relationship without their parents they seem like they would be a very fun couple. So I don’t think they have 100% bad chemistry. And i think everyone can see the bad habit so that’s part of the toxicity too. When I said deep connection I’m basically saying they spent almost half their life together, and I dont mean that just because they have long history they should be theyre gonna be perfect. It’s just my example on why they could be endgame. They’ve been broken together and faced hardships together and I think that’s something significant in their lives.
Thank you for commenting!
I completely agree. Sometimes parents overlook their children’s being because they always think they’re right. They could’ve talk to JxH properly and explained why they think it was wrong instead of using violence and hurting words. It really scarred JxH because until now they still can’t be free and is struggling.
I’m not siding with any of the semes I’m just trying to answer some questions a reader asked(if you scroll down you’ll see it). I just tried to look at different perspectives of the shippers.
Yes yes!
Okay thanks for making yourself clear.
I agree that Haesoo jumped into this relationship with Taku when he should have taken time for himself first, its really frustrating. And I kinda see why J & H's chemistry isn't 100% toxic, but only speaking of their pasts selves. If this story was about them being teens, I'd prolly support them, but looking at what 10 years of no progress has done to their relationship, i simply cannot support them at all :/
I get you! Tbh I want joowon to move on and realize that there’s so much more to his life so he can be happy.
oh no, did you edit this post? now all comments are gone :/
Does it go away when I edit ut? I’m sorry I didn’t know.
I still see all the comments? (⊙…⊙ )
Oh it’s all good then!
all of the sudden they're back.. xD I could have sworn they were all gone a few minutes ago, and Yes comments often get deleted when you edit a post
i agree ┗( T﹏T )┛
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I really like and appreciate this post. Thank you!
Thank you :))
Read everything before you attack me
1) JxH is toxic because their parents prevents them from being honest with each other and they can’t escape from the pressure. TxH is toxic because taku becomes an emotional dumpster for haesoo and haesoo basically uses him as a shed from the rain.
2) I think that JxH should be endgame because they have very deep connection and they deserve a second chance and to be loosen from the grip of their parents. They love each other so much that they hurt each other because it’s the only way they can secure their relationship. Tbh I can't blame them for the toxicity because in the 10 years they had they couldn’t love normally, but they’re grown ups now and can break away from whatever’s keeping them away from each other. And if they end up together they can fix each other, be happy, and be a normal couple. Joowon also shows that he can let go haesoo if that’s what haesoo wants and that it won’t stop him from loving him. He’s very passionate and gives his all of for his love. He is stubborn and imperfect, but that just shows how realistic of a character he is. He is just a broken man who wants to be happy and peaceful with haesoo.
3) I think that TxH deserves to be endgame because taku is honest and courageous to face the problems between him and haesoo. He doesn’t hesitate and goes for what comforts haesoo. He brings out bravery from haesoo and tends to haesoo’s wounds without expecting much. He is patient and offers whatever he can. He makes haesoo feel beautiful and praises haesoo’s talent. He is calm but attentive when haesoo is in pain. He sees haesoo more than what the camera shows him. He can be greedy but he does his best to keep composure. He is perfect for growth.
4) I love that taku is straightforward and persistent, but I hate that he lets Haesoo fill the void in his heart and cope through sex.
For Joowon, I love how committed, passionate, and sensitive he is, but I hate that he made Haesoo his life.
Lastly Haesoo, I love that he takes his time to decide but that’s also what I hate about him. He doesn’t let go of either seme which will eventually hurt them. It would be nice if he can heal by himself and stop seeking people before he gets over one.
5) I love all of the characters. At first I couldn’t feel taku’s attraction for haesoo because he keeps his emotions sheltered, but now that he is showing a bit of greed it makes me see him more as a person. People hate him because although he is straightforward with his words, you can’t see through him and it makes his love appear shallow.
Joowon gets hated because he has been toxic with haesoo, but they don’t see that both of them are toxic. And it makes sense because they started young. He is over protective and treats haesoo as his. His character has reason but he isn’t right. He claims haesoo because he’s all he has. He is also a complex character just like taku, he can’t say what he wants but it shows clearly through his actions. And people also think that Joowon has fans only because he’s hot. Both of them are interesting. Just because Joowon is not the mysterious type doesn’t mean he isn’t complex. There’s more to him. He is over flowing with different types of emotions, and it gives him color and it makes him human. Taku may seem bland for some but he is just bottled up and cautious.
6) As much as I love them, I also hate them, because they’ve been stressing me out since last year. They are all very lovable and deserving of true love and happiness.
Leaving taku makes me feel guilty, but leaving joowon feels like someone’s been stepping on my chest. This story will be the death of me. (︶︿︶)