
but we dont really care about men virginity for sum reasonnnnn. Why arent you getting mad at the guy, he also invited her to bed and most likely had more partners than her. Sorry, im just frustrated at the double standard in society where they just assume men will be men while women have to be little saints and oppress their sexual life.

Still doesnt sit right with me. Why is it easy to cast off men as already jerks to begin with and giving them a light sentence for their actions. Why cant we teach our sons to not be jerks to begin with. Society holds women up to very high standards of sexuality that men cant or dont plan to follow the same.
you say tendency to use their lower brains.
Thats not true. there is basic human decency. Saying that is just making excuse that men will be men. If you want your daughters to value virginity then also teach your sons to do so as well. For me, virginity is a choice and its fine as long as you do it safely and with protection.

Wow there....why am I feeling you're accusing me of something? I never say that men are blameless in anything. And since I'm a woman, I have the tendency to advise woman's actions.
Since I'm someone who really values virginity and really not value sleeping around, I feel offended when someone who can hold her virginity that long discarded it just like that. It suppose to be with someone special (or someone that is your husband).
And I didn't say men thinking with their lower brain excused them from everything.
And you suddenly bring out all they society problems with my initial statement. Stop getting emotional girl.

Im just saying, just cos u value virginity doesnt mean it makes it okay to dictate what other do with their life. You may think virginity is so holy etc but to another, its just imaginary eg. Guys would be losing their virginity the moment they jerked off for the first time. So ur comment is just unnecessary judgement. unless its a manga character that is insulting ur specific religion on culture I dont see why ur so offended by a manga character that is neither.
What a waste of virginity. If you can hold on for that long, why on earth you gave it on some unknown man? Is it because he's handsome? Hmmmm??? Then suddenly you want to marry because of love? Come on girl, that's not how world works.....
Gosh...I can't stand this kind of heroine....