i know this isnt the platform for this but i really need advice

kkyeol July 11, 2020 8:08 am

I’m currently in a relationship with this guy. After a while, I noticed that I began to lose feelings. Now, I’m almost certain that I no longer like him in a romantic way. However, just recently, my boyfriend has gotten very close to my best friend. They facetime all the time, send each other snaps all the time, text a lot, and she’s been talking about him a lot in our group chat which consists of the other members of our friend group (my bf isnt in my friend group and isn’t in this group chat). Occasionally, I’ll even get snaps from her telling me that she’s on the phone with my boyfriend. She’s even gone to tell our group chat that her parents think that she and my boyfriend are in a relationship because he sent her a kissy face. Should I be worried? Is this jealousy? Does me being worried about this mean that I actually do like him? Or am I just uncomfortable because she’s my best friend and he and I are still in a relationship? Sorry, I know that this really isn’t the platform for this but I really do need advice.

Responses
    kkyeol July 19, 2020 5:19 pm
    Wow, well said, I totally agree. I loooooove the community here in mangago~ I love how supportive the people here are. ヾ(☆▽☆) Anonymous

    agreed! i do as well!

    kkyeol July 19, 2020 5:20 pm
    If you are over the age of 20, your boyfriend should be mature enough to not send snaps like that. And your friend is suspicious if she knows about the relationship.If you're just a teenager, you guys are just ... Emi

    thank you!

    kkyeol July 19, 2020 5:21 pm
    ....he isn’t even trying to reach out for your relationship to work?!? I’m not a fond of judging people too easily without hearing their story too, but after all the things you’ve written, I’m certain t... Anonym2003

    thank you so much for your support

    kkyeol July 19, 2020 5:24 pm
    It can’t be help if you have feelings for someone, like you can’t really just drown the emotions and be done with it. But I believe there are much better ways to handle the situation when you fall in love w... Anonym2003

    thank you for such good advice!! i’ll be sure to think about it carefully.

    Anonym2003 July 19, 2020 6:54 pm
    thank you for such good advice!! i’ll be sure to think about it carefully. kkyeol

    No problem. That’s good! Use some time to think about it, and make a decision you’ll be happy with!

    kkyeol August 6, 2020 5:46 am

    Update: We’re no longer a couple now. We both had a serious conversation and broke up. It did hurt me to do it but, this was the best for the both of us. Thank you all for your advice!! I really appreciate it.