Why is rape ok in yaoi?

Panda bear July 4, 2020 3:58 pm

So I am new to this yaoi thing I usually read shouen ai and bl.I recently got into yaoi through Killing Stalking. I recently finished Painter of the night and I'm shocked to see how it's taken normally.I know it’s a fictional world but still it highly disturbs me to see posts on fb saying they are best couple etc. The seme literally rapes the little painter and it's romanticised. After reading some more yaoi I'm so shocked to see so many rape based yaoi. Why is rape so normal and often romanticised in yaoi?

Responses
    Ireadphotos July 4, 2020 3:52 pm

    Lmao you started off with the worst ones lol , honestly I’ve seen it a lot it’s fucking disgusting how it’s handled

    ThatGayChicken July 4, 2020 3:56 pm

    Well you see, I believe as long as it’s fiction and stays fictional its fine.

    Luigi could get bum fucked by Mario while fucking Kirby, and yoshi could be filming all of it and I couldn’t care less

    ThatGayChicken July 4, 2020 3:57 pm
    Well you see, I believe as long as it’s fiction and stays fictional its fine.Luigi could get bum fucked by Mario while fucking Kirby, and yoshi could be filming all of it and I couldn’t care less ThatGayChicken

    I’ll add.

    But it is quite annoying when a simply horrible manga with a large amount of rape is loved and said to be cute and innocent.

    Kyatto July 4, 2020 3:59 pm

    I sure love to be traumatised for life and maybe develop PTSD too by being raped by a abusive person!!!!

    All jokes aside, it’s not hot at all for me. It just makes me incredibly uncomfortable. I mean, Harada’s work have rape in them, but it’s enjoyable since they at least do something about it instead of it going like ‘OMG I’M SO IN LOVE WITH YOU!!!!!!! I WANT TO BE RAPED AGAIN!’.

    bhosutinax July 4, 2020 4:00 pm

    i agree on that. i think artists tend to use it as an excuse to escalate the story and delay the healthy conversations for a ton of chapters so the sexual scenes are frequented. and to draw in a specific type of audience. it also works better when the art is impressive. i cant really understand some authors but i guess you cant expect much especially on bls that focus purely on the sex

    Panda bear July 4, 2020 4:10 pm
    Lmao you started off with the worst ones lol , honestly I’ve seen it a lot it’s fucking disgusting how it’s handled Ireadphotos

    I'm glad someone agrees.All tgese repliesare makingme scared

    Panda bear July 4, 2020 4:12 pm
    I sure love to be traumatised for life and maybe develop PTSD too by being raped by a abusive person!!!! All jokes aside, it’s not hot at all for me. It just makes me incredibly uncomfortable. I mean, Harada�... Kyatto

    Yeah they just seem so unintelligent. I do love mangas with great art but I rather prefer a good and healthy manga with bad art than a rape story with a good art

    Panda bear July 4, 2020 4:15 pm
    Yeah they just seem so unintelligent. I do love mangas with great art but I rather prefer a good and healthy manga with bad art than a rape story with a good art Panda bear

    Well I can't really argue about Killing Stalking tho It's a naturally fucked up manga and not just about sex. Not gonna say I wanted the MCs to end togetherbut they could live lol

    Fujoshi-sama July 4, 2020 4:25 pm

    I think it's important to separate fiction from reality. If you can't do that then you will continue feeling uncomfortable and disturbed. Since you're a beginner to yaoi then you should read the lighter ones (like all fluff and drama). Read the tags before proceeding to read. As for your question, I don't think you're ready to hear it when opinions of some people already disturbed you that much. Also I've enjoyed a lot of yaoi manga without rape in it. You just need to read the tags, read the summary, read some comments before pressing start to read okay??? ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~

    ThatGayChicken July 4, 2020 4:31 pm
    Yeah they just seem so unintelligent. I do love mangas with great art but I rather prefer a good and healthy manga with bad art than a rape story with a good art Panda bear

    http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kazoku_ni_narouyo/

    http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/wolf_me_up/

    http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/boku_no_omawarisan/

    http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/hoppe_ni_himawari/

    Panda bear July 4, 2020 5:25 pm
    This reply will be showed after approved! Sweatpantsnhoodies

    First of all thank you for your suggestions I will keep that in mind I am not one to kink shame (definetely not threesome or polyomary people have their own choices.It's not ew) I didn't try to kink shame please understandI was just marking the fact that even where a guy is getting raped and he is cryingand definitely not liking it there's gonna be some people who say that those scenes were hot and all.It just erks me a little so I was tryingto understand why peoplelile it or even romanticise it. I personally love yaoi and I never said the whole genre is bad. It's just that rape is a popular trend in this genre. Thank you for telling me the main reasons.(Also I come from an extreme homophobic family and environment) I didn't mean any offense to people who has 'raping' as a kink.If I come of as rude then forgive me it was not my intention

    Panda bear July 4, 2020 5:28 pm
    I think it's important to separate fiction from reality. If you can't do that then you will continue feeling uncomfortable and disturbed. Since you're a beginner to yaoi then you should read the lighter ones (l... Fujoshi-sama

    Thank you I'll keep it in mind (▰˘◡˘▰)

    Panda bear July 4, 2020 5:30 pm
    http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kazoku_ni_narouyo/http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/wolf_me_up/http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/boku_no_omawarisan/http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hoppe_ni_himawari/ ThatGayChicken

    Thank you for suggesting ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~

    Aiko July 4, 2020 8:05 pm

    just think of it as trashy wattled fan fictions .. there are some good yaoi that don't glamorize rape
    you are not alone in this , people usually hate on fujoshis for this exact same reason