ohmygod yes that example is so nice
This should be taught at schools
We were taught this in school and they used this exact example :)
Your school be teaching some good stuff
It’s great and vivid analogy, isn’t it?
Watching the video again, I also really like this bit:
“ If someone said “yes” to tea, started drinking it, and then passed out before they’d finished it, don’t keep on pouring it down their throat. Take the tea away. Make sure they are safe. Because unconscious people don’t want tea. Trust me on this.
If someone said “yes” to tea around your house last Saturday, that doesn’t mean they want you to make them tea all the time. They don’t want you to come around to their place unexpectedly and make them tea and force them to drink it going “but you wanted tea last week”, or to wake up to find you pouring tea down their throat going “but you wanted tea last night.””
Like damn yes DONT KEEP POURING TEA DOWN THEIR THROAT WHEN THEY'RE OUT OF IT!!
http://www.consentiseverything.com/#
“ If you’re still struggling with consent just imagine instead of initiating sex you’re making them a cup of tea.
You say “hey, would you like a cup of tea?”
They might say “yes please that’s kind of you” and then when the tea arrives they actually don’t want the tea at all. Sure, that’s kind of annoying as you’ve gone to all the effort of making the tea, but they remain under no obligation to drink the tea.
They did want tea, now they don’t. Some people change their mind in the time it takes to boil that kettle, brew the tea and add the milk. And it’s ok for people to change their mind. And you are still not entitled to watch them drink it.”
It’s ok to not “stick to the decision”.
In case the kind of “omg I’m sorry I said yes then I change my mind I’m sorry I didn’t have the right” content that this manga have might become internalised.