He's worried about his brother and his best friend. He just wants to make sure his friend understands what he'll have to deal with if the two of them keep secretly seeing each other. If the best friend really couldn't handle it, then it would be best for the two of them to break up sooner rather than later. Smaller heartbreak now will hurt less than a huge heartbreak later on.
You do have a point. That’s just what I felt when I first read this last chapter. Maybe if I read it one more time, I might understand what are his true intention (and by that, i meant your comment here hehe) Thank you for explaining it more further!
I disagree with the "if he can't deal with it, then he should give up on the love of his life and move on" kind of mindset. keep in mind that no matter what you do in life, it will have hardship! life is hard. so he might as well go for what he feel and go out with who he wants too even if he can't deal with it he should still feel how it is been in love. giving up is worse and will always feel like he misses something and regrets for not trying hard enough.
there is no such thing as "small heartbreak" it only has heartbreak, nothing more and nothing less and always have regrets from them.
You have a point too. Well, I’m happy that the best friend wasn’t thinking of giving up just because of ‘some’ hindrances that they may encounter. I think what matters to him more is that he and QiuYu’s brother loves each other and that’s enough for him to fight for the love they have. I really love how he trusts their relationship so far.
same I'm glad he is happy with the bro ^_^ they so cute together.
Very true, but since it's your family member and your best friend, you can't help but worried. Like if my best friend is thinking of coming out with a married woman, I would support her decision, but I still try to discourage her or tell her to think again because I know her parents. Or if my brother is gay, I would be very stressed. Cause I'm worried about his life, my parents, etc. It's easy to say nice and empathy words or encourage someone you don't know to come out. But it's hard to encourage or be positive when someone you know wants to. Not because I'm against them, but I'm worried about how they will be treated and how it will affect their lives. Society in Asia is not that welcoming
to me it's the opposite if I know the person well I feel much more will to support them even if it will be harder then most, cause he needs this support and won't get it from others. and in this case it's not like the guy was married, he wasn't. yeas he has a kid but it does not mean someone that has a kid can't love his partner, yeas it is a little harder but not less love. you can't really say loving your child is more than your partner, it's not very fair.
has for "It's easy to say nice and empathy" I disagree, it's harder for me to say nice words and empathy with others even if I know them well.
and even if you worried about their life, again they will meet hardship no matter what they do with their life. so you might as well not given them another hardship on their already hard route. that the least we, has best friends to others, can do.
has for society, society mostly everywhere is not welcome to gays man or different people that not the same as everyone else. that won't change and I don't see why gay people should change and suffer just cause society sucks.
Again, I don't want people to suffer. But I can say all I want to the people I don't know, and I won't see the effects on their lives. However, if someone is close to me, I want them to think carefully before making any move. This is not a simple thing. Especially in Asia where family and community are sometimes before oneself, rumours and conservatives can harm their lives. Losing jobs, gossiping, etc. Someone I know has committed suicide because of that. You already know that it won't change; therefore, asking the person to be careful and think again are not wrong at all. People do that because they care.
This is speaking from someone who comes from the same culture and MC.
I also come from a very conservatives society and sometimes even worse than Japan. and therefore I say this! no matter what they do with their life, it always is hard! whatever they married to women and hide the rest of their life or they go to the love of their life and kick out of their place, it will have it's hardship no matter how hard they think about it.
but has much has the society is shitty, they can always find a way, moving to another country etc....so to me, I prefer not to be another "hardship" in their way, and suicide is never the answer no matter how hard life is.
I honestly don't think Japan is very conservative about gay right. China and Korea are much more stricter. This manhua is from China. So ofc I would reflect it with China society and my country - Vietnam society
I’m living for Yicheng’s ‘baby’ aghhhhhh But it’s a bit sad that QuiYu meddles with his brother’s affairs and take note it’s his bestfriend, his brother’s lover. He should show a bit of empathy towards his bff, what if he’s in his shoes, don’t he feel sad or discourage? Thank God his bff is optimistic or should I say brave for saying things that meant he’s not ready to give up.