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Right....I do think it is extremely possible to wait for 3 years while cultivating that friendship and learning everything about each other (not saying it will be easy but it will be worthwhile and beneficial)...especially since he is a minor(believe it or not he has a lot to learn and go through....everybody does at different stages)
I'm 20 now and going to be 3rd year college. When I think about it carefully, I can't imagine myself getting a boyfriend who's in 9th grade. It's just so young, maybe just cultivate each other's feeling as friends or give time to each other to think things more carefully maybe until he's like in college? 18 is still too young with an age gap of 5.