I'm all for people falling in love when they don't expect to, but once in a while I read 'You'll understand some day!' and as an aromantic I just...sigh from hearing it so often. Love is great! It makes people happy. I love to see people be in love, and it's why I read the romance genre despite not being personally interested. Just make sure to remember that you don't have to be in love to lead a full life!
This has been a PSA from your local ace/aro: if love finds you, I'm glad for you! But you don't have to find it to be happy. ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~
My mother always told me that it is better to not be married than to be married to the wrong person. She told me a story about one of her friends who didn't want to find a guy until she suddenly went into a panic and picked the first guy that came along. Needless to say that didn't work out well.
I'm all for people falling in love when they don't expect to, but once in a while I read 'You'll understand some day!' and as an aromantic I just...sigh from hearing it so often.
Love is great! It makes people happy. I love to see people be in love, and it's why I read the romance genre despite not being personally interested. Just make sure to remember that you don't have to be in love to lead a full life!
This has been a PSA from your local ace/aro: if love finds you, I'm glad for you! But you don't have to find it to be happy. ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~