Why does he behave like this? Explain pls cus I don't understand the uke at all
I don’t understand him neither...
He clearly has a trauma from his first love and is clearly immature. He is lost between the image of a love he never had, the real person his first love is, and Sebin he simply accepted because he doesn't seem to be a threat to him ( doesn't judge him, accept him without questions etc ) He doesn't really know himself what love is I think, and it is even harder because he is gay ( and is shy about it ) Sebin knows very well he doesn't really love him but wants him anyway. So why only the uke gets the insults ?
Mmm thanks for sharing this, now I don’t really hate the uke but I’m kinda mad at him for cheating on Sebin cause he’s trying his best to satisfy the uke (can’t remember the name sorry) and he still cheated...
I personally think u r defending someone who is very much aware of what he is doing really by calling him immature which is clearly not the case. He is someone who gets jealous thinking of his lover talking with another women while he sleeps around himself. He was sucking a teacher in high school when he was very obviously in love with best friend and he didn't find it weird to do that. Now he has a lover but still sleeps around with other people and is still (maybe) in love with his best friend. None of this sounds like a trauma to me but just wrong choices that he made as a high school boy and adult both. He simply doesn't know what he wants. That's what i think.
trauma? really? LOL... nah.. the uke is plainly just a whore.. he loves sex too much to the point he really doesnt care about anything but himself.. his wishy washy personality are his downfall... he should be in a open realtionship definately not someone like sebin who basically only love and devoted to 1 partner... beside the trauma at the beginning is bullshit....
I understand your point of view but ... About the teacher, I think it is not what you think. I mean yes he had his first love but he couldn't go and tell him he loved him, because he didn't know if if he was gay. And you can't tell this if you are scared of being rejected. Still he was a teen with urges I guess. So what, did he have to stay pure and a saint ? He is human ... Of course he didn't try to tell his feeling, but imagine yourself in his shoes, do you think it would be easy ? He chose the easiest way, keep his love for himself and live his sexuality. Nothing awful there.
I do agree that he loves sex too much
Why a whore ? You see the story from the bad side. He was just too kind with Sebin I think and that is his crime I guess ? Of course I guess you think Sebin is pure ? He is perfectly aware from the beginning, and is obsessive in his own way. Stop thinking all white or black and try to see from both perspective. The uke is just acting without thinking of the consequences.So he is not a whore since from the beginning Sebin was not really his loved one in his heart.
Sure that is perfectly fine. To confess or not is up to the person after all and no strings attached sex too is up to the person. But things are different when u r in a relationship with a person who is not ok with open relationships. He should have broken up with sebin when he realized things aren't working out becuz sebin isn't into sm plays and open relationship. That was like the most humanly thing he could have ever done. But instead he wants to keep dating despite doing awful things behind sebin's back and that's the reason y he is so hated.
But the uke claims that he loves sebin and gets jealous. This weird behavior is precisely the reason y I just don't understand uke
Sebin knew all of this and didn't break the relation either. So my question is simple : I understand you don't like him, it is perfectly fine. The thing I cannot understand is WHY all the bad things are for the uke only ? He didn't do all those things alone right ? Why him only is judged ? This this the part I cannot understand.
Hmm..
When most people read a manga they want cute and a fluffy relationship with full of romance, love and loyalty so I guess that's y sebin is more liked and Uke is hated.
It's not like I hate the uke I just don't understand him so I m still reading this manga.
Sebin even after knowing all that still dated the uke maybe cus he liked the uke too much but now in recent chapters he is probably going to break up or try to while there is not much difference in the uke's behavior. So I think it's abt time the author decides on doing some character development here
Are you telling me that because of this we are condemned to read the same boring unrealistic stuff if the author doesn't want his book to considered trash by closed minds ? This is very depressing. But well, luckily that's not the case. Or else I would have already burned all the omegaverse stuff.
There is one thing for sure that it's this manga which is unrealistic. Only real character in this manga is the sister and the uke's best friend. But the story revolves around the uke but the character is so weirdly unrealistic that even if this manga had more potential to improve, the uke ruins it all. I personally don't think that accepting a cheating character should be considered open minded cus instead that's toxic
So we can never have cheating characters with this way of thinking. Like if they don't exist ? I agree on the unrealistic point, but you can't have only stories with fluffy and simple minded characters. Or else read only shounen Ai and baby stuff like biting the tiger.
No I just meant that v don't need to accept or like characters like that. So honestly I would rather they just dont exist at all cus that just makes me so sad. Even if I say that I have read a lot of mangas with multiple characters like that and still like the story but things are different with this guy. Cus in reality, if I met a person like this I would probably go crazy
BTW I don't really like biting the tiger much cus it's meh
It is getting on my nerves people here who are insulting so much the uke. Why so much hatred, did you even try to understand why he acts like this ? Read something else, go back to more immature yaoi whatever but stop trashing this manga.