IKR!! He's totally crazy. Stan the mafia boss all the way
Same!!! Apparently it helps them to stop breathing a few seconds to regulate and restart their breathing ??? (⊙…⊙ )
It’s possessiveness. He want to prove to the hyung that the uke is his.
I'd say it helps them to calm down and forces them to think of something else
It can calm a person down sometimes depending on the situation
Can u send a link to the raws cuz I thought the blondie was a favorite but ig no T_T
I vote for BIG DADDY all the way!!!!
But won't it startle the victim more? What if they get bitten?
But won't they panic more from the suddden intrusion?
Can't they just hug the victim? What if they get bitten?
Oh hell nah! I haven't even started reading the manga, and don't know what exactly happened, but fuck na. I suffer from severe anxiety and have panic attacks pretty funny frequently. There's no way kissing me on the mouth and stopping my breathing will help. That's exactly the opposite! WTF? A person who is having a panic attack forgets how to breathe. The least you can do is instruct them how to breathe.
Also some people would like to be embraced by a familiar person. But a lot of people usually hate being touched while having a panic or anxiety attack. (Sorry for rubbling too much)
I have panic attacks and the way you ground yourself is by focusing on one thing and breaking it down in your head. The feel of it, the texture, the solidness. Like really describing it to yourself in your mind, at first when I saw your comment I was going to say kissing is bs for a panic attack but now it actually makes some sense lol. Also, breathing is really important. I can see kisses helping with that.
No, it's fine. (●'◡'●)ﾉ I'm just really uncomfortable and confused as to why a number of mangas do that. It's so unrealistic that it makes me cringe to the max. I advise you to not read this webtoon as there's a lot of scenes that are very problematic.
Ohhh..so it's somewhat actually helpful?
Thank you for explaining.
I still hate how mangas do that though. It's so romantesized that I cringe everytime I see a scene like that.
Thank you for your suggestion. After reading some comments, I've already decided not to read it. And your suggestion just makes it even more justifying. Thank you.
Last panic attack I had around someone (so someone tried to help me) was over my dads health and he had me lie down and listen to his heart.
Kissing is a a trope but I can see how it would help, lol
You're welcome. (●'◡'●)b
I heard a parent's/relative's heartbeat actually helps. Kissing is out of the question though. I'd rather give the person some space rather than get in their face.
I feel like I’d accidentally bite someone lol.
I don't understand it. Why would you kiss someone who's having a panic attack? Is it even helpful? I've been seeing it a lot lately. I'm so confused! (╯°Д °)╯╧╧
Also..I read the raws and I freaking hate the cute blondie. I just hate him now!