Oh god I felt that
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It's not difficult to take care of the children when they are adult, right? Where were you for this 20 years? Mastering up your courage? Thinking mother will do all the dirty work for you? (Not the case for the emperor lol)
And now you strive for a normal, 'perfect' family
Jesus Christ
Oh god I felt that
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It's not difficult to take care of the children when they are adult, right? Where were you for this 20 years? Mastering up your courage? Thinking mother will do all the dirty work for you? (Not the case for the emperor lol)
And now you strive for a normal, 'perfect' family
Jesus Christ
Idk it accidentally has been deleted
Sorry for reposting
I also lived with an asshole of a dad but the thing is that I was it from this country originally so my dad kept going back-and-forth between the US and where I lived and when I was younger he used to be great but when we came to live here permanently he turned into a complete shit head worthless piece of crap and he still hasn’t tried or learn to be a dad because he only cares about himself
Almost right but what I was trying to say is at least he’s trying now even if he had a fucked up start I also believe that they knew that they were having a hard time I just don’t believe he thought that was that bad because when he looked all the cards he really didn’t know what the fuck were those therefore maybe he probably had an inkling when he saw them but I don’t think he believes that what they were going to was that harsh I think he believe that was gonna be better than what they would have to go through in the castle I also think 100% that he believes that even if the woman was a bitch they were still his kids and they were Royals and because of that she was gonna understand better her place sadly he was wrong So yeah it’s understandable that they all knew that they were having a hard time I just don’t think they knew that it was to that extent to the point that it just became extreme abuse and not just neglect I think in his mind he thought it was a better idea to leave them over there give them money and tried to have them have a better life that they would’ve had in the castle because of their hair and their under understanding the only reason they went back is because they thought they were the better excepted because of their guardian I think that’s what the author was trying to get across to us anyways it’s not like I don’t blame himIs that I also understand his side I tried with my father to and he’s just a bully fuck up so
Exactly, people’s lives are not toys, you can’t just come and go whenever you want
That emperor is the worst, he uses every excuses to not have them by his side and now, because the mother is gone, he wants to take care of them ? Bullshit
I see what you’re saying, but he still said he thought of killing them, because they are weaknesses to an emperor’s reputation
It does not change the fact they did not care about what was happening, neglect is abuse, abuse is abuse
I did not try with my father, because the pain was and is here, it won’t go just because you’re trying now, I don’t want that kind of stress in my life
I agree I’m not trying to the fandom I’m trying to understand his rationality which that’s usually what I tried to do that doesn’t mean I condone it whatsoever he did say he wanted to kill them I don’t think it’s just because they were weaknesses but because what they would have to go through I think you have they were better off as you can see his other children and how they’re not like them but yeah I Snapchat in with my father to I thought I’d therapist I tried begging for him to come with me I didn’t work out I just put them down I live with my mom yeah I’m older but I’m more comfortable living with an actual parental figure after they got divorced I kind a need it
In my case it was my mother who neglected me. I was the third daughter of my parents but my mother always wanted a boy. Three years after my birth my brother was born. I could feel my mothers hatred towards me ever since I was born. Now I am a 30 years old adult but I still can't forgive her for what she did to me.
I don’t think it’s a wound that can easily be forgiven,
you don’t have to forgive especially if people around you say bullshit like “but she’s your mother”, I hear that all the time and no, these people don’t know that living hell
I came to the conclusion that I don’t even want to hate him anymore, because by doing so I was turning like him, and I hated that, I realized that I did not even want to know him enough to feel that kind of feelings anymore, I won’t forgive him, I don’t have that tolerance to forget the wounds that made me today and all the traumas, the depression and the anxiety that came are here forever
I don’t like the father, I have the same specimen at home, the sole difference between them and I is that it took 20 years to him to try to be a dad, and no what the hell leave me alone, leave them alone, they ended up like that because of him, I just hope for these twins to end up happy, and to live outside the walls of the castle